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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 281668" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>Marg you are very correct. Every one of us comes out of these things differently. I know my aunts have just this past year began getting professional help. They are in their 50's and just now starting to TRY to heal. They are fragile for certain. I was in counselling off/on since my teens. I also didn't live with this man my entire childhood as these women did. I was there for 8 months. These women suffered years and years. And sick even more was my grandmother KNEW. The siblings were told "he is your brother, we love him, that's just the way he is". No kidding. Right until her death last year! Thus the reason only after the witch passed away they finally started getting some help, talking to each other, and went on a mission to locate me. I feel so much for these women. I look forward to meeting one of them this summer. She is planning to come here for a visit. Possibly with another of the sisters, that part is uncertain. </p><p>I am thankful for the fact that they are loving women, loving wives, loving mothers, and have been very warm and actively pursuing getting to know my kids and I and forge a TRUE relationship. Something good has come from this. </p><p>Anyhow, off to school to drop the girl child. But wanted to thank you all for being so non judgemental. We never do know without walking in anothers shoes. I had a fleeting anger at one point, that they weren't jumping forward instantly to open up this can of worms. It passed quickly as I heard the pain they suffer, the pain they have never healed due to their mother etc. </p><p>You are all so wonderful <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 281668, member: 4264"] Marg you are very correct. Every one of us comes out of these things differently. I know my aunts have just this past year began getting professional help. They are in their 50's and just now starting to TRY to heal. They are fragile for certain. I was in counselling off/on since my teens. I also didn't live with this man my entire childhood as these women did. I was there for 8 months. These women suffered years and years. And sick even more was my grandmother KNEW. The siblings were told "he is your brother, we love him, that's just the way he is". No kidding. Right until her death last year! Thus the reason only after the witch passed away they finally started getting some help, talking to each other, and went on a mission to locate me. I feel so much for these women. I look forward to meeting one of them this summer. She is planning to come here for a visit. Possibly with another of the sisters, that part is uncertain. I am thankful for the fact that they are loving women, loving wives, loving mothers, and have been very warm and actively pursuing getting to know my kids and I and forge a TRUE relationship. Something good has come from this. Anyhow, off to school to drop the girl child. But wanted to thank you all for being so non judgemental. We never do know without walking in anothers shoes. I had a fleeting anger at one point, that they weren't jumping forward instantly to open up this can of worms. It passed quickly as I heard the pain they suffer, the pain they have never healed due to their mother etc. You are all so wonderful :) [/QUOTE]
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