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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 672502" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Aloha Kalahou</p><p> Good work this week and today. This is a great move, for you and your son.</p><p>He will have to step it up for himself, a good thing.</p><p></p><p> Honesty is good. Kids are smart, they know.</p><p></p><p> Sounds like my two. For some reason they have no fear of unpaid bills and tickets. This is one of their biggest downfalls.</p><p></p><p> Ugh, debt collectors, we were hounded for a couple of years. Thank goodness for caller id. Hubs and I are very careful to pay bills and stay on top of things, my d cs just do not seem to care. I am labeling my twos' mail "address unknown, and putting it back in the mailbox. Reason being, one of my neighbors tried to have her sons girlfriend, removed from her house. The neighbor had been living with her boyfriend in his house, mail going to boyfriend's house. When the sons Mom called the police to remove the girlfriend, she produced mail delivered in her name to the address. Mom, had her mail going elsewhere (boyfriend's house), so when the officers asked if she had any mail to show proof of address, she had none.</p><p>The girlfriend could not be removed from the premises, her mail established residency (yikes).</p><p></p><p> Oh, I am so happy for you, Kalahou. This is awesome. Yes, you will be alright! So will your son. </p><p>And, so will <em>I</em>, for that matter. Thank you for sharing that sign.</p><p> Interestingly enough, Cedar and Copa were writing a post right around the same time on being alright, too. </p><p></p><p>This is a good thing. For everybody. Hopefully your son will take steps to get help, to get motivated.</p><p></p><p> You have done your best to help your son Kalahou. That is all a mom can do. The rest is really up to him, it is his path.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Your progress is so wonderful Kalahou. I am so pleased for you.</p><p></p><p>On another note, in true fashion, my grands just popped over today with "Volcano" their dad. "I was going to call, but my phone was dead." he said.</p><p>My three mo'opuna look good, and I squeezed them ever so tight. I looked at the oldest and said "Do you remember what you whispered in my ear when you left?" "Yes Tutu, I said I had to look after my brother and my sister." "Are you doing that?" he grinned "Yes, Tutu" </p><p>(NOT!)</p><p>It was good to see them, I scolded Volcano to at least call us and let us know they were coming.</p><p>Sheesh.</p><p>I have not seen or heard from them in four months.</p><p>Must be something going on in the universe.</p><p></p><p>A Hui Hou</p><p>Malama Pono</p><p></p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 672502, member: 19522"] Aloha Kalahou Good work this week and today. This is a great move, for you and your son. He will have to step it up for himself, a good thing. Honesty is good. Kids are smart, they know. Sounds like my two. For some reason they have no fear of unpaid bills and tickets. This is one of their biggest downfalls. Ugh, debt collectors, we were hounded for a couple of years. Thank goodness for caller id. Hubs and I are very careful to pay bills and stay on top of things, my d cs just do not seem to care. I am labeling my twos' mail "address unknown, and putting it back in the mailbox. Reason being, one of my neighbors tried to have her sons girlfriend, removed from her house. The neighbor had been living with her boyfriend in his house, mail going to boyfriend's house. When the sons Mom called the police to remove the girlfriend, she produced mail delivered in her name to the address. Mom, had her mail going elsewhere (boyfriend's house), so when the officers asked if she had any mail to show proof of address, she had none. The girlfriend could not be removed from the premises, her mail established residency (yikes). Oh, I am so happy for you, Kalahou. This is awesome. Yes, you will be alright! So will your son. And, so will [I]I[/I], for that matter. Thank you for sharing that sign. Interestingly enough, Cedar and Copa were writing a post right around the same time on being alright, too. This is a good thing. For everybody. Hopefully your son will take steps to get help, to get motivated. You have done your best to help your son Kalahou. That is all a mom can do. The rest is really up to him, it is his path. Your progress is so wonderful Kalahou. I am so pleased for you. On another note, in true fashion, my grands just popped over today with "Volcano" their dad. "I was going to call, but my phone was dead." he said. My three mo'opuna look good, and I squeezed them ever so tight. I looked at the oldest and said "Do you remember what you whispered in my ear when you left?" "Yes Tutu, I said I had to look after my brother and my sister." "Are you doing that?" he grinned "Yes, Tutu" (NOT!) It was good to see them, I scolded Volcano to at least call us and let us know they were coming. Sheesh. I have not seen or heard from them in four months. Must be something going on in the universe. A Hui Hou Malama Pono leafy [/QUOTE]
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