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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 276603" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Define whine - because all I saw was someone asking others - what can I do? I don't see that as whine. I had NO clue you are on the highest dose of lexapro, and honestly didn't know you were seeing a therapist. So no, I did not know that. If I did know it? I forgot it. For that you'll have to forgive ME for - because I can barely keep up with people in my own life day to day - of <span style="color: black">which you have become a part of, but like them as well - I forget things they tell me too.</span> </p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #00bfff"><span style="color: black">You said:</span> </span></p><p> </p><p><em><span style="color: deepskyblue">I have had 6 weeks of great mental peace (other than not sleeping) since I moved - and now I feel the internal frustration building <span style="color: blue">again.</span> I cannot keep up, it seems, with work, not to mention life - and I feel mad all of</span> <span style="color: deepskyblue">the time, and frustrated, and </span><span style="color: blue"><span style="color: deepskyblue">I can sense the depression creeping</span> back in</span></em><span style="color: blue">.</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: black">Steely - I'm not attacking you in my post. I made a very bold choice to tell you what I think based on your post information. You didn't just say WELL WORK STINKS - you said you feel frustration again. I naturally felt that it was from all the horrible past year or so that you've endured and caused you the most frustration. Several of us at the time you were going through all the turmoil of H's loss - suggested you see a bereavement counselor to help you understand what had happened. To my knowledge you never did. I don't remember you saying at that time either that you had been seeing a counselor once a week for six years. Otherwise I think I would have said "Now is a good time to speak to your therapist." But maybe you did - and I missed your reply or post. </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #000000">As far as your comment that you have over-whined on the board? I'm not sure where else you could get stuff like we (all of us) have out of your system better than here - but that means when you do (you, me anyone) we get several different opinions because we are several different people. </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #000000">But I guess I totally misunderstood your post and I've explained why I wrote what I wrote. I've never intentionally set out to hurt anyone here or anywhere else for that matter in my life because I've known more so than not what it's like to be that misunderstood person and it's not a very good place to be. No one likes to be misunderstood. I apologize for not clearly understanding what you wrote and responding in kind. IT was only ever meant to help. </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #000000">Star </span></p><p> </p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 276603, member: 4964"] Define whine - because all I saw was someone asking others - what can I do? I don't see that as whine. I had NO clue you are on the highest dose of lexapro, and honestly didn't know you were seeing a therapist. So no, I did not know that. If I did know it? I forgot it. For that you'll have to forgive ME for - because I can barely keep up with people in my own life day to day - of [COLOR=black]which you have become a part of, but like them as well - I forget things they tell me too.[/COLOR][COLOR=deepskyblue] [/COLOR] [COLOR=#00bfff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#00bfff][COLOR=black]You said:[/COLOR] [/COLOR] [COLOR=deepskyblue][/COLOR] [I][COLOR=deepskyblue]I have had 6 weeks of great mental peace (other than not sleeping) since I moved - and now I feel the internal frustration building [COLOR=blue]again.[/COLOR] [COLOR=blue] [/COLOR]I cannot keep up, it seems, with work, not to mention life - and I feel mad all of[/COLOR] [COLOR=deepskyblue]the time, and frustrated, and [/COLOR][COLOR=blue][COLOR=deepskyblue]I can sense the depression creeping[/COLOR] back in[/COLOR][/I][COLOR=blue].[/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=black]Steely - I'm not attacking you in my post. I made a very bold choice to tell you what I think based on your post information. You didn't just say WELL WORK STINKS - you said you feel frustration again. I naturally felt that it was from all the horrible past year or so that you've endured and caused you the most frustration. Several of us at the time you were going through all the turmoil of H's loss - suggested you see a bereavement counselor to help you understand what had happened. To my knowledge you never did. I don't remember you saying at that time either that you had been seeing a counselor once a week for six years. Otherwise I think I would have said "Now is a good time to speak to your therapist." But maybe you did - and I missed your reply or post. [/COLOR] [COLOR=#000000][/COLOR] [COLOR=#000000]As far as your comment that you have over-whined on the board? I'm not sure where else you could get stuff like we (all of us) have out of your system better than here - but that means when you do (you, me anyone) we get several different opinions because we are several different people. [/COLOR] [COLOR=#000000][/COLOR] [COLOR=#000000]But I guess I totally misunderstood your post and I've explained why I wrote what I wrote. I've never intentionally set out to hurt anyone here or anywhere else for that matter in my life because I've known more so than not what it's like to be that misunderstood person and it's not a very good place to be. No one likes to be misunderstood. I apologize for not clearly understanding what you wrote and responding in kind. IT was only ever meant to help. [/COLOR] [COLOR=#000000]Star [/COLOR] [COLOR=#000000][/COLOR] [COLOR=#000000][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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