Going-S0-Crazy
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I do not know were to start, but right now its 9:07pm on a Sunday evening and I am about ready to lose my mind. I am a single mom of three wonderful children ages 15, 10 and 8. though my 8 year old has ADD and ODD as well as a learning disability. I am at my wits end with her. Right now I am in the same room with her listening to her yell, scream and carry on like a one year old, because she does not want to go to bed. We have been doing this for over an hour now.
There are times were I just want to give up.. walk away and never return again. I feel horriable feeling this way But I can not help it. I Live with my parents who I am sorry to say have there own ways of looking at the situation, they have there own ways of trying to discipline them and I do not agree with it all the time. She goes to conceling once a week, and they are also going to start her on a behavoial program, BUT still. I do not know what to do anymore. She just seams to do her best to win every single battle, to push my buttons and push them over and over again till she gets her way. She just does not stop!!!
The punishments do not work, I just starting doing the time out, and my parents they want her to do something like like a sentence 100 times each in order for her to think about what she is writing. Like " I will not talk back" I am not sure if this is something that is a good thing or a bad, because to me it just seams like it does not get any were.
One minute she could be talking nicly after screaming and yelling and the second I say something to her that she does not want to hear, she will scream at me again like she was an animal or something.
I do not get it.. My little girl is getting worse and worse and I am ready to run! I need help and I need help fast!!!!!
There are times were I just want to give up.. walk away and never return again. I feel horriable feeling this way But I can not help it. I Live with my parents who I am sorry to say have there own ways of looking at the situation, they have there own ways of trying to discipline them and I do not agree with it all the time. She goes to conceling once a week, and they are also going to start her on a behavoial program, BUT still. I do not know what to do anymore. She just seams to do her best to win every single battle, to push my buttons and push them over and over again till she gets her way. She just does not stop!!!
The punishments do not work, I just starting doing the time out, and my parents they want her to do something like like a sentence 100 times each in order for her to think about what she is writing. Like " I will not talk back" I am not sure if this is something that is a good thing or a bad, because to me it just seams like it does not get any were.
One minute she could be talking nicly after screaming and yelling and the second I say something to her that she does not want to hear, she will scream at me again like she was an animal or something.
I do not get it.. My little girl is getting worse and worse and I am ready to run! I need help and I need help fast!!!!!