husband is getting worse. He sleeps 8-16 hours a day, when he sleeps. Constantly snaps at myself and kids. Will not leave the house unless I can somehow force him. He does do housework, that doesn't require he leaves the house. He cannot work due to pain, and if he would do the paperwork we have ins. to cover his truck payment, but he will not do that. Will not make MD appts, will not make a psychiatrist appointment. I realize he is very depressed and having lots of pain, but I cannot live this way, and he won't leave. I have considered moving me and the kids out and selling the house (his name is not on the deed) but I hate to do that. If we split, I will have to either move in with mom for help with kids, or quit college. I really do not know what to do. I am so tired him being asleep when I get home from work. He is up all night playing computer games. If we split, he will lose his health ins. I told him I am getting tired of this, he needs to call a psychiatrist. I am so worn out, I cannot even care. I cannot get too involved in all this as he misses appts freq and has been fired by a dentist for this. I do not want him seeing anyone who difficult child may need to see, as he may burn bridges for difficult child. Sorry so long.