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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 616564" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Jess...wow. I am so sorry for your difficult life and you have my deepest empathy.</p><p></p><p>This is just my take on things. I am assuiming son is either too damaged to help by his age and he has inherited some bad stuff from his father, etc...and he is dangerous to you and the others in your home. by the way, drug tests are FAR from a confirmation. Many drugs, like spice, don't show up. But if he isn't on drugs, then he is even more disturbed because he is acting as out of control and mean as a serious drug addict.Sexting is the least of his problems. It's not a GOOD thing, but his violence toward you and the girls are far worse. One of your kids is only five? Has he ever been sexual towards her? He is big enough to accidentally kill her in a rage, even if it isn't on purpose.</p><p></p><p>If this were my kid, I'd be looking for a therapeutic residential psychiatric center where he could live and get help at the same time. Some are run by the state and should not be a major cost. I am surprised the justice system didn't recommend that already if they know him and his issues and the danger to you and your daughter that he is.</p><p></p><p>Short of telling YOU to go to a center for domestic abuse (and I'm serious) I would not personally want this child in my home. I'd be afraid. He is a threat to everyone under your roof.</p><p></p><p>You deserve some peace in your life. You have had such a rough ride. You are important and deserving of a calmness and serenity which it seems you can not get if you continue to remain stuck in this man size child's world.</p><p></p><p>I am guessing there is a lot more wrong with him than ADHD and it is not fixable just by going to therapy week by week.</p><p></p><p>Please...take care of yourself and post often. We are a free support group and available 24/7. Hugs and sad about your hurting heart and all the pain you've suffered. It is time to be good to yourself.</p><p></p><p>I hesitate to say this and of course I have no degree or any qualifications to diagnose anyone, but he does sound like a budding antisocial. You need to protect yourself as he does not seem to worry about what anyone thinks, does not appear to fear anyone, and does not seem to have a strong conscience.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 616564, member: 1550"] Jess...wow. I am so sorry for your difficult life and you have my deepest empathy. This is just my take on things. I am assuiming son is either too damaged to help by his age and he has inherited some bad stuff from his father, etc...and he is dangerous to you and the others in your home. by the way, drug tests are FAR from a confirmation. Many drugs, like spice, don't show up. But if he isn't on drugs, then he is even more disturbed because he is acting as out of control and mean as a serious drug addict.Sexting is the least of his problems. It's not a GOOD thing, but his violence toward you and the girls are far worse. One of your kids is only five? Has he ever been sexual towards her? He is big enough to accidentally kill her in a rage, even if it isn't on purpose. If this were my kid, I'd be looking for a therapeutic residential psychiatric center where he could live and get help at the same time. Some are run by the state and should not be a major cost. I am surprised the justice system didn't recommend that already if they know him and his issues and the danger to you and your daughter that he is. Short of telling YOU to go to a center for domestic abuse (and I'm serious) I would not personally want this child in my home. I'd be afraid. He is a threat to everyone under your roof. You deserve some peace in your life. You have had such a rough ride. You are important and deserving of a calmness and serenity which it seems you can not get if you continue to remain stuck in this man size child's world. I am guessing there is a lot more wrong with him than ADHD and it is not fixable just by going to therapy week by week. Please...take care of yourself and post often. We are a free support group and available 24/7. Hugs and sad about your hurting heart and all the pain you've suffered. It is time to be good to yourself. I hesitate to say this and of course I have no degree or any qualifications to diagnose anyone, but he does sound like a budding antisocial. You need to protect yourself as he does not seem to worry about what anyone thinks, does not appear to fear anyone, and does not seem to have a strong conscience. [/QUOTE]
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