nvts
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Hi! Ok, here's the deal. Once again difficult child 1 has landed himself in the psychiatric hospital. This time it was suicidal thoughts and depression.
Quick History:
May 2010: psychiatric hospital. first time for aggressive behavior and meltdowns with broken windows and sheetrock. Out in 12 days on seroquel and hydroxyzine for anxiety.
July 2010: 2nd psychiatric hospital. hitting me, meltdowns, screaming threats, property damage.
Sept 2010: 3rd trip, suicidal thoughts and depression
There were countless trips to the er and the police called in between stays.
The docs at the pediatric er feel that he likes being in the hospital. The one commented on the fact that difficult child was using psychiatric terms to explain his "delusions". The Aspergers in him makes him crave order and routine. This is what the hospital provides. It also provides him 1 to 1 adult attention 24/7. difficult child studies what goes on with the other kids, memorizes what they do/say and then uses that to get to go to the er with hopes that he will be admitted. That's why after they refused to admit him after the 2nd stay he stopped hitting me altogether.
There are 3 options being presented:
1. Psychiatric long term voluntary admission to the local hospital on the adolescent ward. He would be observed with his medication and work with a behavioral therapist. My fear: being the youngest one there and him listening to kids with drug/alcohol issues and considering his "copycat" modus operandi, him trying drugs/alcohol to be "cool" or to get admitted once he gets out.
2. Residential Treatment Facility (RTF). This would be local, so I'd still have access and he'd be going to our local school. My fear: same as above.
3. Boarding school in Westchester/Yonkers that specializes in Aspergers children. He would be allowed home alternate weekends and on holidays. Not much fear here except that he would think I'd thrown in the towel. Well, I guess that fear belongs with all of the options!
4. Keep going around in circles and have him come home.
Any experience with these choices? Any input on better vs. worse? I'm lost and I can't talk to AH about it!
Thanks!
Beth
Quick History:
May 2010: psychiatric hospital. first time for aggressive behavior and meltdowns with broken windows and sheetrock. Out in 12 days on seroquel and hydroxyzine for anxiety.
July 2010: 2nd psychiatric hospital. hitting me, meltdowns, screaming threats, property damage.
Sept 2010: 3rd trip, suicidal thoughts and depression
There were countless trips to the er and the police called in between stays.
The docs at the pediatric er feel that he likes being in the hospital. The one commented on the fact that difficult child was using psychiatric terms to explain his "delusions". The Aspergers in him makes him crave order and routine. This is what the hospital provides. It also provides him 1 to 1 adult attention 24/7. difficult child studies what goes on with the other kids, memorizes what they do/say and then uses that to get to go to the er with hopes that he will be admitted. That's why after they refused to admit him after the 2nd stay he stopped hitting me altogether.
There are 3 options being presented:
1. Psychiatric long term voluntary admission to the local hospital on the adolescent ward. He would be observed with his medication and work with a behavioral therapist. My fear: being the youngest one there and him listening to kids with drug/alcohol issues and considering his "copycat" modus operandi, him trying drugs/alcohol to be "cool" or to get admitted once he gets out.
2. Residential Treatment Facility (RTF). This would be local, so I'd still have access and he'd be going to our local school. My fear: same as above.
3. Boarding school in Westchester/Yonkers that specializes in Aspergers children. He would be allowed home alternate weekends and on holidays. Not much fear here except that he would think I'd thrown in the towel. Well, I guess that fear belongs with all of the options!
4. Keep going around in circles and have him come home.
Any experience with these choices? Any input on better vs. worse? I'm lost and I can't talk to AH about it!
Thanks!
Beth