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Man, they know how to cut to the bone
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 184636" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Sorry <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p></p><p>I typed it off a handout. Basically I think she is projecting her unhappiness in herself and how she feels she is being judged harshly by everyone...including herself. She is her own worst critic so therefore she lashes out at you because you are handy. Instead of judging herself as unlovable or stupid or her hair is too curly or or or...she can state facts. Instead of saying in a mean manner that you were yelling at the lady or something...she could say...oh, that lady almost hit us. that is a statement of fact. Not a judgment. Judgments are feeling statements. </p><p></p><p>Is that making more sense?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 184636, member: 1514"] Sorry :( I typed it off a handout. Basically I think she is projecting her unhappiness in herself and how she feels she is being judged harshly by everyone...including herself. She is her own worst critic so therefore she lashes out at you because you are handy. Instead of judging herself as unlovable or stupid or her hair is too curly or or or...she can state facts. Instead of saying in a mean manner that you were yelling at the lady or something...she could say...oh, that lady almost hit us. that is a statement of fact. Not a judgment. Judgments are feeling statements. Is that making more sense? [/QUOTE]
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