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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 397965" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Shari...I think I sort of understand what you are feeling. </p><p></p><p>When I was in the hospital for 2 months, besides the support I got from you guys, no one actually gave a rats behind about me. Oh my therapist called me a few times, my Dad and step-mom came down and stayed for about half a day. One of Tony's friends said he was going to come see me one time but he was afraid it would upset me. (?!?) Tony and Billy were there almost every day if they could be with their work schedules. Tony more than anyone else. </p><p></p><p>Not a soul from anywhere else. I was utterly astounded that no one had bothered to even attempt to clean my house at all. I mean nothing. Basically even dishes that were in the sink when I left were still there. Trash and clothes were still there. Nothing at all had been done at all. Im glad no one had come from the hospital to see if the house was fit for me to come home to because they would have never let me go home. </p><p></p><p>No way I could have maneuvered even a walker in that house much less a wheel chair. I would have thought that knowing just how sick I still was, they would have banded together to get the place cleaned. Heck, Cory and Mandy werent working. Jamie and Billie had been here for 2 weeks waiting to see if I was going to pull through. How darned hard would it have been for able bodied folks to pitch in and at least get stuff that was trash out of here? Do the dishes, clean the kitchen, wash all the clothes and put them away? Really. No one even cleaned the bathrooms and I was in no shape to do any of those things. I couldnt stand up long enough to wash dishes or cook a meal for at least two months or more. I am still having trouble with that. </p><p></p><p>I walked in the door and almost lost it. Their answer? They were too busy visiting me. Ok, right. No one stayed with me 24/7. And even if Tony did, which I dont think he did, what about the others? </p><p></p><p>There was no excuse. I dont think I will ever forgive them for that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 397965, member: 1514"] Shari...I think I sort of understand what you are feeling. When I was in the hospital for 2 months, besides the support I got from you guys, no one actually gave a rats behind about me. Oh my therapist called me a few times, my Dad and step-mom came down and stayed for about half a day. One of Tony's friends said he was going to come see me one time but he was afraid it would upset me. (?!?) Tony and Billy were there almost every day if they could be with their work schedules. Tony more than anyone else. Not a soul from anywhere else. I was utterly astounded that no one had bothered to even attempt to clean my house at all. I mean nothing. Basically even dishes that were in the sink when I left were still there. Trash and clothes were still there. Nothing at all had been done at all. Im glad no one had come from the hospital to see if the house was fit for me to come home to because they would have never let me go home. No way I could have maneuvered even a walker in that house much less a wheel chair. I would have thought that knowing just how sick I still was, they would have banded together to get the place cleaned. Heck, Cory and Mandy werent working. Jamie and Billie had been here for 2 weeks waiting to see if I was going to pull through. How darned hard would it have been for able bodied folks to pitch in and at least get stuff that was trash out of here? Do the dishes, clean the kitchen, wash all the clothes and put them away? Really. No one even cleaned the bathrooms and I was in no shape to do any of those things. I couldnt stand up long enough to wash dishes or cook a meal for at least two months or more. I am still having trouble with that. I walked in the door and almost lost it. Their answer? They were too busy visiting me. Ok, right. No one stayed with me 24/7. And even if Tony did, which I dont think he did, what about the others? There was no excuse. I dont think I will ever forgive them for that. [/QUOTE]
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