Thanks for all of the prayers, juju, neked chicken liver dances. Back in January I had a severe attack of diverticilusis and they had to go in and remove some "stuff" and it was all such a mess i had one of those colonostphy bags. The hospitalization on the 19th was to get rid of that and get reconnected again. What was supposed to be an hour operation turned into four, and I had trouble breathing and some heart problems so had to stay in ICU for a few days. Still have diverticuli hanging round, so have to watch my diet for the rest of my life- am not going to go thru that again...ever
The boys stepped up to the plate, James food shopped and made meals, and Danny cleaned the entire house, and they both came to see me in the hospital - a big deal for Dan as he gets sick to his stomach with the very idea. Didn't hear from my eldest - she knew i was going in - we called and left messages on her phone, and on face book, emailed her and nada. Course when SO got ahold of her, it was so much drama, she didn't know, past few weeks have been crazy, I don't get FB on my phone (she does) and was ranting in general about her meaning so little to me I would go to the hospital and not tell her. So the boys blocked her from visiting lest she start something in the hospital- don't know if she tried -haven't heard from her since and am pretty sure that relationship is over and done with LOL At least I won't have to read on FB about how much she loves her great family, and step kids, and brother in law, life is good, god is great blah blah blah. She wasn't referring to anyone who lives at my house..sigh. But at least my blood pressure is no longer over 200 when I even hear her name
Poor SO ran himself ragged between his mom and I. Am thankful we were able to get her placed about a week or so before my surgery as I am no longer able to care for her with her being bedridden. He goes in for surgery in two weeks for a growth on his wrist. Hopefully I will be able to be driving round so I can take him.
And just as a last warning PLEASE EAT YOUR FIBER and eat healthy. Apparently half the population has holes in their colon and when they blow out, its pretty painful and trust me, you don't want to go there
Marcie