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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 416055" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>Jena--</p><p> </p><p>Yes, it may be the "average" answer when one takes a poll....but more or less does not mean there is an 'extreme'.</p><p> </p><p>Truthfully, desire for sex varies from person to person. Some people want it every day - some people really don't care if they ever have sex again. It becomes a problem if their partner does not share the same level of desire.</p><p> </p><p>The "happiest marriages" (whoever determines that title) probably have partners whose sexual desires are pretty close. A 3x per week marries a 2x per week, for example. Or a 'rarely' marries a 'rarely'. etc</p><p> </p><p>If you don't naturally fall at the same level of desire - then a compromise of some sort needs to be negotiated.</p><p> </p><p>When a "gotta have it every day" marries a "eh-not really interested"...there's gonna be a LOT of compromising to do - but it doesn't mean there is a "right" or "wrong", nor does it mean they are doomed to an unhappy marriage.</p><p> </p><p>You can work this out...</p><p> </p><p>You just need to meet halfway.</p><p> </p><p>Hang in there!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 416055, member: 6546"] Jena-- Yes, it may be the "average" answer when one takes a poll....but more or less does not mean there is an 'extreme'. Truthfully, desire for sex varies from person to person. Some people want it every day - some people really don't care if they ever have sex again. It becomes a problem if their partner does not share the same level of desire. The "happiest marriages" (whoever determines that title) probably have partners whose sexual desires are pretty close. A 3x per week marries a 2x per week, for example. Or a 'rarely' marries a 'rarely'. etc If you don't naturally fall at the same level of desire - then a compromise of some sort needs to be negotiated. When a "gotta have it every day" marries a "eh-not really interested"...there's gonna be a LOT of compromising to do - but it doesn't mean there is a "right" or "wrong", nor does it mean they are doomed to an unhappy marriage. You can work this out... You just need to meet halfway. Hang in there! [/QUOTE]
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