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<blockquote data-quote="Josie" data-source="post: 416185" data-attributes="member: 1792"><p>To add on to upallnight's idea, sometimes you could stay up late to wait for him and sometimes he could wake up early to meet your schedule. You could alternate.</p><p></p><p>I don't see how it would ever just happen naturally when you are both on such different schedules.</p><p></p><p>And, I wonder what the therapist says to husband when they are alone. It seems odd that he would just totally take your side like that when husband isn't there. I have only been to marriage counseling once and husband was there too, so I don't know for sure, but I thought it would be more about facilitating discussion and agreement between the two of you, not one of you is wrong and the other is right. Two tdocs that I talk to both declined to talk to husband or do marriage counseling since they couldn't be as neutral as necessary since they already knew "my side".</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Josie, post: 416185, member: 1792"] To add on to upallnight's idea, sometimes you could stay up late to wait for him and sometimes he could wake up early to meet your schedule. You could alternate. I don't see how it would ever just happen naturally when you are both on such different schedules. And, I wonder what the therapist says to husband when they are alone. It seems odd that he would just totally take your side like that when husband isn't there. I have only been to marriage counseling once and husband was there too, so I don't know for sure, but I thought it would be more about facilitating discussion and agreement between the two of you, not one of you is wrong and the other is right. Two tdocs that I talk to both declined to talk to husband or do marriage counseling since they couldn't be as neutral as necessary since they already knew "my side". [/QUOTE]
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