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<blockquote data-quote="Lucedaleblessed" data-source="post: 315333" data-attributes="member: 6747"><p>Steely.</p><p></p><p>Could it be that his drug use has something to do with him trying to understand his father and the actions his father made? Our children seems to copy us and even our poor decisions in life are sometime copied just so they can understand why we make choices as we do.</p><p></p><p>Perhaps the therapy had made him understand that he needs to get some kind of closure regarding the relationship with his father before he can move on. Then he tried something he might have seen his father do with the tools at hand.</p><p></p><p>Second of all he might even be scared about making the wrong decisions if he moves to a part of the program where he can leave the secure settings of the campus and face the real world.</p><p></p><p>The often remote location of the campus works two ways. It for the most protects them against the threats of various temptations, but it also provides them with a daily life where they just have to follow directions. It can be very scaring to leave such a place and risk failure, so some makes the choice to stall their progress in the program so they can remain inside this secure setting longer.</p><p></p><p>I am very touched with your situation and can understand the shock. Of course some students will try to find every possible way to smuggle drugs on the campus, however if the program has been in operation for years, they should have seen it all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lucedaleblessed, post: 315333, member: 6747"] Steely. Could it be that his drug use has something to do with him trying to understand his father and the actions his father made? Our children seems to copy us and even our poor decisions in life are sometime copied just so they can understand why we make choices as we do. Perhaps the therapy had made him understand that he needs to get some kind of closure regarding the relationship with his father before he can move on. Then he tried something he might have seen his father do with the tools at hand. Second of all he might even be scared about making the wrong decisions if he moves to a part of the program where he can leave the secure settings of the campus and face the real world. The often remote location of the campus works two ways. It for the most protects them against the threats of various temptations, but it also provides them with a daily life where they just have to follow directions. It can be very scaring to leave such a place and risk failure, so some makes the choice to stall their progress in the program so they can remain inside this secure setting longer. I am very touched with your situation and can understand the shock. Of course some students will try to find every possible way to smuggle drugs on the campus, however if the program has been in operation for years, they should have seen it all. [/QUOTE]
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