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Me again - feeling doubt and sadness
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<blockquote data-quote="tracyf551" data-source="post: 231877" data-attributes="member: 4764"><p>Missy I am sorry for your heartbreak. I know EXACTLY where your coming from. I am one of those parents who did the doctors and counselors. I even had my son at 14 put into a bootcamp thru the court system, a boysranch at 16. All of it did no good. </p><p>See sometimes it does not matter how much or how little we do, the love, hugs, caring, whatever. The difficult child's in this world are going to do what they want until the bottom falls out. Then they love you back when things get bad. But do they really love you or are they pulling at that one last hope you have to see if you will still bail them out? </p><p>I also had to put my son out of the house after he turned 18. He was stealing from us and we couldn't afford to replace everything he kept taking. He refused to work and wanted to do drugs and have all this around his younger brother. I said enough, I have been going thru this for 6 years and it has aged me 20.</p><p> You will always miss them, but miss them from afar. Remembering them when times were good and they smiled at you and looked to you for guidance is the hardest. I love my son dearly, but unfortunately I don't like him. Not the way he is now.</p><p>Hang in there!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tracyf551, post: 231877, member: 4764"] Missy I am sorry for your heartbreak. I know EXACTLY where your coming from. I am one of those parents who did the doctors and counselors. I even had my son at 14 put into a bootcamp thru the court system, a boysranch at 16. All of it did no good. See sometimes it does not matter how much or how little we do, the love, hugs, caring, whatever. The difficult child's in this world are going to do what they want until the bottom falls out. Then they love you back when things get bad. But do they really love you or are they pulling at that one last hope you have to see if you will still bail them out? I also had to put my son out of the house after he turned 18. He was stealing from us and we couldn't afford to replace everything he kept taking. He refused to work and wanted to do drugs and have all this around his younger brother. I said enough, I have been going thru this for 6 years and it has aged me 20. You will always miss them, but miss them from afar. Remembering them when times were good and they smiled at you and looked to you for guidance is the hardest. I love my son dearly, but unfortunately I don't like him. Not the way he is now. Hang in there!!! [/QUOTE]
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