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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 313617" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I have thought about this a lot.....I have prayed about this even more. </p><p> </p><p>It's not so much that I want blood or revenge or anything like that. I just want to be heard. I don't think anyone can give me answers for what has been done. I just want the boss of the people that have held my sons life's decisions in their hands for the last ten years to know what kind of an outcome and lousy job has emminated from their lax efforts. I want him to know that the last three years have been mostly on the shoulders of the parents and that had it not been for us? I'm not sure if my son would even be alive. </p><p> </p><p>I want him to know that my son's education is non-existant and that we were lied to about accredited schools. That should never EVER have happened. </p><p> </p><p>I want him to know that the foster care system is unregulated to the degree of being on the verge of abuse.</p><p> </p><p>I want him to know that the agency that has supposedly cared for him under HIS name - got together in a meeting without my son present and decided to give a child with severe emotional disabilities two weeks to get out, or go to a homeless shelter. No job skills - no help in getting skills, no education, no help in getting to interviews, no help with all the things they made the fosters promise to do. That's what I want someone to be accountable for. Caseworkers are supposed to make home visits once a month - happened twice in the last year and 1/2. Why? Is he not accountable for that? He's supposed to fill out the paperwork - nope I have. I just want to know if this man knows how the buck gets passed in that program - and if that's how it's going to be shouldn't that money be put to better use? </p><p> </p><p>That's what I want HIM to know about. And I want the director of the agency and everyone under him to answer why. Why when the kid has held up his part of the deal - did they do this to him? Why is everyone else allowed to cheat and skate and not be held accountable - but tell a 19 year old kid with disabilities that he has to - when he is mentored by others who are not? </p><p> </p><p>That's what I want answered. I' m not raging- I want answers and that's typically worse.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 313617, member: 4964"] I have thought about this a lot.....I have prayed about this even more. It's not so much that I want blood or revenge or anything like that. I just want to be heard. I don't think anyone can give me answers for what has been done. I just want the boss of the people that have held my sons life's decisions in their hands for the last ten years to know what kind of an outcome and lousy job has emminated from their lax efforts. I want him to know that the last three years have been mostly on the shoulders of the parents and that had it not been for us? I'm not sure if my son would even be alive. I want him to know that my son's education is non-existant and that we were lied to about accredited schools. That should never EVER have happened. I want him to know that the foster care system is unregulated to the degree of being on the verge of abuse. I want him to know that the agency that has supposedly cared for him under HIS name - got together in a meeting without my son present and decided to give a child with severe emotional disabilities two weeks to get out, or go to a homeless shelter. No job skills - no help in getting skills, no education, no help in getting to interviews, no help with all the things they made the fosters promise to do. That's what I want someone to be accountable for. Caseworkers are supposed to make home visits once a month - happened twice in the last year and 1/2. Why? Is he not accountable for that? He's supposed to fill out the paperwork - nope I have. I just want to know if this man knows how the buck gets passed in that program - and if that's how it's going to be shouldn't that money be put to better use? That's what I want HIM to know about. And I want the director of the agency and everyone under him to answer why. Why when the kid has held up his part of the deal - did they do this to him? Why is everyone else allowed to cheat and skate and not be held accountable - but tell a 19 year old kid with disabilities that he has to - when he is mentored by others who are not? That's what I want answered. I' m not raging- I want answers and that's typically worse. [/QUOTE]
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