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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 357079" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Well your description of your son could have been the one most said about me when I was a teen...lol. Probably a lot longer than that if I care to admit if I am being fully honest here. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>If we take this individually, I think I can sort of do a flow chart and maybe what <em>could </em>help. Not gonna say anything will help cause Im not a fortune teller...lol.</p><p></p><p>1. Punching holes in walls. I so get this one. Punching holes is a release of pent up frustration and boiling rage that just has to come out in a very volatile way in a very short period of time and in the most satisfying way possible that will actually take up some energy from the puncher and may even cause pain to the puncher. Not to mention the "Oh S! I gotta fix this mess" pain! Now what you need to do is work on ways to find out what is causing him so much rage so he can deal with it more appropriately and then of course, you want to find ways to relieve as much stress that is causing him to rage anyway. </p><p></p><p>Some kids/people...dont know that there are more than just a very few emotions - love/like, hate, blah, happy, sick. Nothing else. They dont understand that you can feel sad about something but you arent mad. You can cry because you are happy. These kids/people are the ones who will blow up at someone in great rage because someone is 15 minutes getting home from work but the reason that they lash out so over the top is not because it matters so much that they are late but because the person at home was scared to death that they were in an accident and the emotion that she couldnt control was fear. </p><p></p><p>2. Throwing things very forcefully. Could be a by product of just inner disconnect of his ability to put deeds with thoughts. </p><p></p><p>Onward....Ya know, I seem to see a complete pattern of a mood disorder with a pretty severe anxiety component.</p><p></p><p>If I was going to be asking for anything, and you do realize we cant advise, but if I was ask my doctor for me....I would ask for lamictal for the mood issues to try to straighten them out and then seroquel to deal with any leftover anxiety.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 357079, member: 1514"] Well your description of your son could have been the one most said about me when I was a teen...lol. Probably a lot longer than that if I care to admit if I am being fully honest here. If we take this individually, I think I can sort of do a flow chart and maybe what [I]could [/I]help. Not gonna say anything will help cause Im not a fortune teller...lol. 1. Punching holes in walls. I so get this one. Punching holes is a release of pent up frustration and boiling rage that just has to come out in a very volatile way in a very short period of time and in the most satisfying way possible that will actually take up some energy from the puncher and may even cause pain to the puncher. Not to mention the "Oh S! I gotta fix this mess" pain! Now what you need to do is work on ways to find out what is causing him so much rage so he can deal with it more appropriately and then of course, you want to find ways to relieve as much stress that is causing him to rage anyway. Some kids/people...dont know that there are more than just a very few emotions - love/like, hate, blah, happy, sick. Nothing else. They dont understand that you can feel sad about something but you arent mad. You can cry because you are happy. These kids/people are the ones who will blow up at someone in great rage because someone is 15 minutes getting home from work but the reason that they lash out so over the top is not because it matters so much that they are late but because the person at home was scared to death that they were in an accident and the emotion that she couldnt control was fear. 2. Throwing things very forcefully. Could be a by product of just inner disconnect of his ability to put deeds with thoughts. Onward....Ya know, I seem to see a complete pattern of a mood disorder with a pretty severe anxiety component. If I was going to be asking for anything, and you do realize we cant advise, but if I was ask my doctor for me....I would ask for lamictal for the mood issues to try to straighten them out and then seroquel to deal with any leftover anxiety. [/QUOTE]
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