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Meeting at school tomorrow and I'm terrified
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 510540" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>I get your point about what can they do?? but for a 504 it takes a diagnosis and for it to affect school... the IEP process takes a while due to the gathering of information and assessment...the reason you want it is because she needs the protection and accommodations. IF it means they come to your home to assess then they do. I HAVE! I would still put in writing that you want an evaluation for an IEP... that way you have options....changes in schedules, safe spots with understanding staff in the school, solid safety plans for her to deal with her anxiety etc. If it is left to one nice person, then that person can have a baby or go to another school and the plan is gone. If in writing, then someone is mandated to be an IEP manager and run the plan. </p><p></p><p>Just my thought on it but you can only do what you can handle right now and it sure sounds like she is in crisis and probably needs more than you are able to do at home. She likely needs intensive treatment either in pt or out. If she refuses to leave home, it may be hospital or residential I think it is wonderful you will get the input from such an expert. Bring her attendance record. Let the school know you have this appointment. Between them there needs to be a setting for her that will help her to recover. </p><p></p><p>I am so sorry this is so scary and hard. Nothing worse than to have your child suffer. It is so important to let them know you are not just letting her stay home... depends on the district but they can file for ed. neglect on you and so that is another reason to give them the written request to show you do want her in school and are doing all you can on YOUR end to help her.</p><p></p><p>My son's doctor wrote a note saying he needs home bound school for now, your doctor should be able to support what setting you feel your daughter needs for now. </p><p></p><p>I can't remember, you say she has an obsessive interest and is stubborn/controlling... does she have Asperger's??? Sorry if you answered all of that, just wondering.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 510540, member: 12886"] I get your point about what can they do?? but for a 504 it takes a diagnosis and for it to affect school... the IEP process takes a while due to the gathering of information and assessment...the reason you want it is because she needs the protection and accommodations. IF it means they come to your home to assess then they do. I HAVE! I would still put in writing that you want an evaluation for an IEP... that way you have options....changes in schedules, safe spots with understanding staff in the school, solid safety plans for her to deal with her anxiety etc. If it is left to one nice person, then that person can have a baby or go to another school and the plan is gone. If in writing, then someone is mandated to be an IEP manager and run the plan. Just my thought on it but you can only do what you can handle right now and it sure sounds like she is in crisis and probably needs more than you are able to do at home. She likely needs intensive treatment either in pt or out. If she refuses to leave home, it may be hospital or residential I think it is wonderful you will get the input from such an expert. Bring her attendance record. Let the school know you have this appointment. Between them there needs to be a setting for her that will help her to recover. I am so sorry this is so scary and hard. Nothing worse than to have your child suffer. It is so important to let them know you are not just letting her stay home... depends on the district but they can file for ed. neglect on you and so that is another reason to give them the written request to show you do want her in school and are doing all you can on YOUR end to help her. My son's doctor wrote a note saying he needs home bound school for now, your doctor should be able to support what setting you feel your daughter needs for now. I can't remember, you say she has an obsessive interest and is stubborn/controlling... does she have Asperger's??? Sorry if you answered all of that, just wondering. [/QUOTE]
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