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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 448544" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am as mad as Janet is. S needs an attitude adjustment - most likely with a 2X4 to be sure the adjuster has his attention. I am glad you were not devastated by his insanity and coldness. I really admire the way you handled things during the meeting. I would have blasted him or been so furious that I cried. (I HATE it when I get mad and cry - drives me nutsier!) I do think that you need to send a letter to the person who supervises the mediation program. The "mediator" did NOT handle this well. At the very LEAST she should have stopped him and asked him to listen to your side and the htings that he did to hurt YOU. </p><p></p><p>I know you see that he has a happy life, great child, wife that is his perfect match and the respect of his church and community.But it just isn't reality. He puts forth that front and bullies his wife and anyone else near him into going along with it so that he can feel superior to everyone. At the very least, S is a huge bully - and not just to those outside of his home. HIs wife may seem just like him, and they probably feed off of each other, but no way is she going to be able to ever "please" him the way he thinks she is supposed to. </p><p></p><p>He has something seriously wrong with him and it is NOT because anything you did or did not do. You are a great mom and the female head of a very strong, happy family. </p><p></p><p>I do think the head of the mediation group needs to know that K did NOT stop him or ask if what he said was really the way it happened, or any other things that might have helped to create a better outcome. K needs some more training if this is the way she thinks a safe and healthy mediation is supposed to go.</p><p></p><p>((((((((((hugs))))))))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 448544, member: 1233"] I am as mad as Janet is. S needs an attitude adjustment - most likely with a 2X4 to be sure the adjuster has his attention. I am glad you were not devastated by his insanity and coldness. I really admire the way you handled things during the meeting. I would have blasted him or been so furious that I cried. (I HATE it when I get mad and cry - drives me nutsier!) I do think that you need to send a letter to the person who supervises the mediation program. The "mediator" did NOT handle this well. At the very LEAST she should have stopped him and asked him to listen to your side and the htings that he did to hurt YOU. I know you see that he has a happy life, great child, wife that is his perfect match and the respect of his church and community.But it just isn't reality. He puts forth that front and bullies his wife and anyone else near him into going along with it so that he can feel superior to everyone. At the very least, S is a huge bully - and not just to those outside of his home. HIs wife may seem just like him, and they probably feed off of each other, but no way is she going to be able to ever "please" him the way he thinks she is supposed to. He has something seriously wrong with him and it is NOT because anything you did or did not do. You are a great mom and the female head of a very strong, happy family. I do think the head of the mediation group needs to know that K did NOT stop him or ask if what he said was really the way it happened, or any other things that might have helped to create a better outcome. K needs some more training if this is the way she thinks a safe and healthy mediation is supposed to go. ((((((((((hugs)))))))))) [/QUOTE]
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