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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 440961" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Great Job!!! Her behavior and the things hse said means she knows it was very wrong and NOT what is allowed and I get the feeling that it will NOT happen again. I agree that her behavior meant that your son was telling the truth. This is the kind of coded message that can carry a LOT of power. She KNOWS that you know she did it and that you know that she was way out of line but you are not making a big deal and getting her fired or reprimanded or putting her in a position where she has to defend herself. But she also problem knows that she won't get this chance again. IF it happens again you will make a big deal about it and she is upset that she did it. So this did a LOT more as it will keep her on guard so she doesn't lose it again and hit him. in my opinion she did 'lose it' and that does happen - shouldn't happen but she is human. Anyway, I am proud of the way you handled it.</p><p></p><p>because you did the whole coded message she will likely be a LOT more motivated to learn about adhd and how to help him. If you had accused her or asked her outright if she hit him, she would NOT be as receptive - it would result in the attitude that HE is the problem, not her lack of knowledge.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 440961, member: 1233"] Great Job!!! Her behavior and the things hse said means she knows it was very wrong and NOT what is allowed and I get the feeling that it will NOT happen again. I agree that her behavior meant that your son was telling the truth. This is the kind of coded message that can carry a LOT of power. She KNOWS that you know she did it and that you know that she was way out of line but you are not making a big deal and getting her fired or reprimanded or putting her in a position where she has to defend herself. But she also problem knows that she won't get this chance again. IF it happens again you will make a big deal about it and she is upset that she did it. So this did a LOT more as it will keep her on guard so she doesn't lose it again and hit him. in my opinion she did 'lose it' and that does happen - shouldn't happen but she is human. Anyway, I am proud of the way you handled it. because you did the whole coded message she will likely be a LOT more motivated to learn about adhd and how to help him. If you had accused her or asked her outright if she hit him, she would NOT be as receptive - it would result in the attitude that HE is the problem, not her lack of knowledge. [/QUOTE]
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