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<blockquote data-quote="garrison" data-source="post: 572924" data-attributes="member: 14316"><p>In Michigan support wouldn't end. Even if you have 50/50 parenting time (or one parent has one child and the other parent has the other child). If your ex makes more money than you He would still have to pay. Check into that where you are.</p><p> I don't know you, but from what I read, I think maybe it would be a good idea for dad to step up and take difficult child for a year. If you cant control her (not your fault. We all "get" this), maybe he can. It seems like maybe you are doing her a disservice by not trying this. If it really sucks for difficult child then you can use it later. (Knock it off or I'm sending you to dads! LOL) It will also give your ex a big wake up call. Which would be good for you, and good for difficult child. She would then have 2 parents on the same page. That sounds a lot better than what she has now.</p><p> About him threatening you to take the kids, it's all talk. He has you scared and is being a bully. I say call his bluff. (another benifit of difficult child living with him for a while.) Next time he says you aren't parenting difficult child right, tell him "you've got the talking part done. Lets see you do better." If he does do better then it's great for difficult child and that <u>is</u> the goal. If he doesn't, you get to remind him of it when he's being a jerk.</p><p> BUT, make sure there is a time limit on it so difficult child doesn't think she has control. This would also force the ex to stick it out even when things got bad.</p><p> I wish you the best. This is such a hard thing to deal with. (())</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="garrison, post: 572924, member: 14316"] In Michigan support wouldn't end. Even if you have 50/50 parenting time (or one parent has one child and the other parent has the other child). If your ex makes more money than you He would still have to pay. Check into that where you are. I don't know you, but from what I read, I think maybe it would be a good idea for dad to step up and take difficult child for a year. If you cant control her (not your fault. We all "get" this), maybe he can. It seems like maybe you are doing her a disservice by not trying this. If it really sucks for difficult child then you can use it later. (Knock it off or I'm sending you to dads! LOL) It will also give your ex a big wake up call. Which would be good for you, and good for difficult child. She would then have 2 parents on the same page. That sounds a lot better than what she has now. About him threatening you to take the kids, it's all talk. He has you scared and is being a bully. I say call his bluff. (another benifit of difficult child living with him for a while.) Next time he says you aren't parenting difficult child right, tell him "you've got the talking part done. Lets see you do better." If he does do better then it's great for difficult child and that [U]is[/U] the goal. If he doesn't, you get to remind him of it when he's being a jerk. BUT, make sure there is a time limit on it so difficult child doesn't think she has control. This would also force the ex to stick it out even when things got bad. I wish you the best. This is such a hard thing to deal with. (()) [/QUOTE]
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