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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 482609" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>lol!!! What TeDo didn't see is when Q came to ask me things, he was kicking me or pinching me. Then grabbing as much food as he could and walking around eating and he is not good about knowing if food is on his face, arg. But I let that stuff go, not the kicking...that is when I asked Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) to have him leave. But in the end he took his medications and so I allowed him to try to come to the mall and try again. Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) was with us 1/2 hr more and that was time enough for the medications to kick in and I was super proud of his turn about. No more calling me names or any little jabs. He got a huge reward at home for that! But he told me I could NOT compliment him, lol. I thought it was great that difficult child 1 and Q had some similar interests in the kinds of stores they wanted to look at etc. They are both little guys so though they are teens, they could do some of the younger kid stuff and look appropriate (the christmas train was there and just games and electronics and stuff. And, yeah. I could hang out with difficult child 2 lots of days. He has a goofy sense of humor like I do. HE would get along great with my nephews. They are very much similar in terms of sense of humor. One nephew is adhd and one is gen. anxiety disorder. both on 504 plans. (and at the same school, same grade, haha poor school) I really do enjoy middle school aged kids. they are still little but kind of having grown up ideas and opinions... it is a fun time of life when you can get past the ugly moments. </p><p></p><p>It will be really fun to think of things to do in the summer months. One thing I do have to say about my kiddo, he LOVES to try new things. He is usually ugly (due to anxiety and routine change) but once into it...like an hour or so, he usually does great. He is typically up to TRY anything. (then if you ever do it again, he will expect it to be exactly the same....weather, how many people, places you go, food you eat, etc. so funny. He will tell you details for years)</p><p></p><p>Anyway I am rambling again... tonight went well. Q came to my moms to try to peel potatoes with his Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker. We saved two of them for him and he did well, only one little cut and he just kept going (we washed off that potato!) THen tehy went to MOA and he had a blast with her (no money no amusement park in the middle, just in the mall mode after being with TeDo and her family. Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) said he did great and last time with the lower ritalin, he spit at her the whole way home. SO, I have to really try to convince new doctor that this kid just has a totally different quality of life. I am not even needing to lock the inside locks tonight. He went past the kids playing outside, said he wanted to play, I said no and he came in! Can you believe it??? I am beside myself. I told him if he broke my trust we would not ever do this again. He said that was fair. WOW</p><p></p><p></p><p>Happy thanksgiving all!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 482609, member: 12886"] lol!!! What TeDo didn't see is when Q came to ask me things, he was kicking me or pinching me. Then grabbing as much food as he could and walking around eating and he is not good about knowing if food is on his face, arg. But I let that stuff go, not the kicking...that is when I asked Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) to have him leave. But in the end he took his medications and so I allowed him to try to come to the mall and try again. Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) was with us 1/2 hr more and that was time enough for the medications to kick in and I was super proud of his turn about. No more calling me names or any little jabs. He got a huge reward at home for that! But he told me I could NOT compliment him, lol. I thought it was great that difficult child 1 and Q had some similar interests in the kinds of stores they wanted to look at etc. They are both little guys so though they are teens, they could do some of the younger kid stuff and look appropriate (the christmas train was there and just games and electronics and stuff. And, yeah. I could hang out with difficult child 2 lots of days. He has a goofy sense of humor like I do. HE would get along great with my nephews. They are very much similar in terms of sense of humor. One nephew is adhd and one is gen. anxiety disorder. both on 504 plans. (and at the same school, same grade, haha poor school) I really do enjoy middle school aged kids. they are still little but kind of having grown up ideas and opinions... it is a fun time of life when you can get past the ugly moments. It will be really fun to think of things to do in the summer months. One thing I do have to say about my kiddo, he LOVES to try new things. He is usually ugly (due to anxiety and routine change) but once into it...like an hour or so, he usually does great. He is typically up to TRY anything. (then if you ever do it again, he will expect it to be exactly the same....weather, how many people, places you go, food you eat, etc. so funny. He will tell you details for years) Anyway I am rambling again... tonight went well. Q came to my moms to try to peel potatoes with his Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker. We saved two of them for him and he did well, only one little cut and he just kept going (we washed off that potato!) THen tehy went to MOA and he had a blast with her (no money no amusement park in the middle, just in the mall mode after being with TeDo and her family. Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) said he did great and last time with the lower ritalin, he spit at her the whole way home. SO, I have to really try to convince new doctor that this kid just has a totally different quality of life. I am not even needing to lock the inside locks tonight. He went past the kids playing outside, said he wanted to play, I said no and he came in! Can you believe it??? I am beside myself. I told him if he broke my trust we would not ever do this again. He said that was fair. WOW Happy thanksgiving all! [/QUOTE]
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