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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 436317" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>Sounds like he is trying and does have himself focused. in my opinion this is an even bigger deal since he's living in a situation that could easily draw him to the dark side. I don't know anything about detachment with difficult children, but do know that cosigning on a rental is the least risky type of cosign - just make sure the lease is a year or less and you can pay til the end of the lease if he doesn't.</p><p></p><p>If you decide to go forward on this, I would also make sure that he understands you cosigning doesn't mean he can bail on his portion of the rent. If he doesn't pay, and you have to, you can evict him and find someone to sublet.</p><p></p><p>I don't know your past history, so only you and your husband can decide if he NEEDS to do it all on his own, or if he's matured and <strong>ready enough</strong> to be able to make it with a little bit of help.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 436317, member: 11965"] Sounds like he is trying and does have himself focused. in my opinion this is an even bigger deal since he's living in a situation that could easily draw him to the dark side. I don't know anything about detachment with difficult children, but do know that cosigning on a rental is the least risky type of cosign - just make sure the lease is a year or less and you can pay til the end of the lease if he doesn't. If you decide to go forward on this, I would also make sure that he understands you cosigning doesn't mean he can bail on his portion of the rent. If he doesn't pay, and you have to, you can evict him and find someone to sublet. I don't know your past history, so only you and your husband can decide if he NEEDS to do it all on his own, or if he's matured and [B]ready enough[/B] to be able to make it with a little bit of help. [/QUOTE]
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