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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 259604" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Klmno, my post was not suggesting manipulation. My post was indicating that our younger difficult child "sees" and "hears" things differently than the average bear. With Aspergers and mood disorders it is not unusual for the conversations to be "received" and/or "repeated" with a different bent.</p><p> </p><p>From the bottom of my heart I am truly sorry that your son is where he is. In order for him to survive and for you to endure, I believe it is necessary to assume the people in charge know what they are doing. (if they do NOT know what they are doing, you have no power or control to change that!)</p><p> </p><p>Somehow I am a little bit surprised that if his time of incarceration has been so radically reduced that they would spend one month processing him into the larger facility. Many times, however, I have been sadly surprised by what "the system" seem to think makes sense. </p><p> </p><p>Keep doing your best to focus on what you can change. If it is a paint job for the bathroom, or a haircut, or fantasy time for your personal enjoyment........DO IT! Hugs. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 259604, member: 35"] Klmno, my post was not suggesting manipulation. My post was indicating that our younger difficult child "sees" and "hears" things differently than the average bear. With Aspergers and mood disorders it is not unusual for the conversations to be "received" and/or "repeated" with a different bent. From the bottom of my heart I am truly sorry that your son is where he is. In order for him to survive and for you to endure, I believe it is necessary to assume the people in charge know what they are doing. (if they do NOT know what they are doing, you have no power or control to change that!) Somehow I am a little bit surprised that if his time of incarceration has been so radically reduced that they would spend one month processing him into the larger facility. Many times, however, I have been sadly surprised by what "the system" seem to think makes sense. Keep doing your best to focus on what you can change. If it is a paint job for the bathroom, or a haircut, or fantasy time for your personal enjoyment........DO IT! Hugs. DDD [/QUOTE]
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