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Mom, what time is it?
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 565120" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>If punishment would work, Q would never have a behavior problem today! There have been a**h*les in every setting who have done this, suspensions, missing out on recess, parties, lunch room, etc. NEVER worked, and only made him feel badly. I fought hard against this stuff. One psychiatric had him go to a book and move tokens from one side of a page to another saying some better word each and every time he said something inappropriate. The neg words increased and physical started. Sooooo frustrating.</p><p>There are many books esp. Under aspergers searches on teaching skills.</p><p></p><p>I do make sure I give ranges I can keep instead of a time and Q is good after years of this at being more flexible on some issues. He will say, " so it could be X but maybe Y too, right mom?" It will pay off but takes time. That said there are typical naughty times and some points where understanding or not he is removed. I'll say since you are not being safe we need to leave...... or, we can't go to X because you're having trouble using appropriate words.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 565120, member: 12886"] If punishment would work, Q would never have a behavior problem today! There have been a**h*les in every setting who have done this, suspensions, missing out on recess, parties, lunch room, etc. NEVER worked, and only made him feel badly. I fought hard against this stuff. One psychiatric had him go to a book and move tokens from one side of a page to another saying some better word each and every time he said something inappropriate. The neg words increased and physical started. Sooooo frustrating. There are many books esp. Under aspergers searches on teaching skills. I do make sure I give ranges I can keep instead of a time and Q is good after years of this at being more flexible on some issues. He will say, " so it could be X but maybe Y too, right mom?" It will pay off but takes time. That said there are typical naughty times and some points where understanding or not he is removed. I'll say since you are not being safe we need to leave...... or, we can't go to X because you're having trouble using appropriate words. [/QUOTE]
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