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More drug problems, just one week after rehab
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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 500132" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>It is not your responsibility to follow him around and prove he is doing drugs. It is his repsonsibility to prove he is not. It's good you called the IOP, even though he is not going tonight they are on notice and will do a drug test when he returns. He probably didn't want to go because he was afraid they would test him. He is probably out buying a detox kit right now or synthetic urine. I know because my difficult child did all of that and more. She had an answer for everything and swore up and down she was not doing drugs and all the time she was. I could never tell when she smoked pot unless she forgot to use the eyedrops for her bloodshot eyes or didn't spray body spray all over her clothes or chew a bunch of gum to disguise the smell.</p><p></p><p>If he is hanging around all these kids who are using he is using. But you will drive yourself nuts trying to prove it. The more I think about it I agree with your husband. You told him the conditions and he violated them. He is trying very hard to convince you he didn't but he is not acting like a sober person. He is on a slippery slope if he hasn't already slid all the way down.</p><p></p><p>If you get a chance please read <em>Addict in the Family</em> and <em>Everything Changes</em> by Beverly Conyers.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 500132, member: 59"] It is not your responsibility to follow him around and prove he is doing drugs. It is his repsonsibility to prove he is not. It's good you called the IOP, even though he is not going tonight they are on notice and will do a drug test when he returns. He probably didn't want to go because he was afraid they would test him. He is probably out buying a detox kit right now or synthetic urine. I know because my difficult child did all of that and more. She had an answer for everything and swore up and down she was not doing drugs and all the time she was. I could never tell when she smoked pot unless she forgot to use the eyedrops for her bloodshot eyes or didn't spray body spray all over her clothes or chew a bunch of gum to disguise the smell. If he is hanging around all these kids who are using he is using. But you will drive yourself nuts trying to prove it. The more I think about it I agree with your husband. You told him the conditions and he violated them. He is trying very hard to convince you he didn't but he is not acting like a sober person. He is on a slippery slope if he hasn't already slid all the way down. If you get a chance please read [I]Addict in the Family[/I] and [I]Everything Changes[/I] by Beverly Conyers. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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