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<blockquote data-quote="HereWeGoAgain" data-source="post: 114986" data-attributes="member: 3485"><p>I too am sorry she's putting you through this.</p><p></p><p>Just my opinion, but if she <strong><em>is</em></strong> pregnant, then asking the question and the comment about just getting rid of it mean that most likely you will be called on to take care of the baby. If your health is up to it you might want to consider whether you'd want to adopt, as otherwise the threat of taking the baby back is a powerful tool for her to blackmail you. If you are concerned that you will not be able to care for the baby (assuming it does exist) but are against her "getting rid of it" (as a gather you are?) would she consider putting it up for adoption?</p><p></p><p>Really feeling for you in this situation. In our case we knew from the start that difficult child was committed to having the baby; there were no "I'll just get an abortion" threats. And we were prepared to be at least co-parenting with difficult child or, as turned out to be the case, taking on all of the parenting.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HereWeGoAgain, post: 114986, member: 3485"] I too am sorry she's putting you through this. Just my opinion, but if she [b][i]is[/i][/b] pregnant, then asking the question and the comment about just getting rid of it mean that most likely you will be called on to take care of the baby. If your health is up to it you might want to consider whether you'd want to adopt, as otherwise the threat of taking the baby back is a powerful tool for her to blackmail you. If you are concerned that you will not be able to care for the baby (assuming it does exist) but are against her "getting rid of it" (as a gather you are?) would she consider putting it up for adoption? Really feeling for you in this situation. In our case we knew from the start that difficult child was committed to having the baby; there were no "I'll just get an abortion" threats. And we were prepared to be at least co-parenting with difficult child or, as turned out to be the case, taking on all of the parenting. [/QUOTE]
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