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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 743809" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Yes. This is it in a nutshell. I am the one who is perceived to have the assets. And they have always perceived M as responsible for taking care of them. They believe they owe him nothing, not even respect. And they have demonstrated that everything that I have, they feel is rightfully theirs. And if I don't share, they will take, or act out against me. So yes.</p><p>Yes. See above. If I do not give them what I have as they want it, there is resentment that comes out in various passive aggressive ways.</p><p>Whaaat? I am certain I am disliked. And I am very likeable (smile.)</p><p>We're barking up the same tree. Except in my case, they would lose the intimidation if I just never said no, and let them run me over. In Nomad's case it seems like some of the same thing is going on. That they want her hospitality, but she needs to remember her place (in her house--which is out of the photo.)</p><p>That's me. I love to entertain. When I can feel rewarded. But to be used? And excluded. And disrespected to boot? No.</p><p>Whaat???? I am stunned by this. Purely stunned. In your own home. When they are eating your food? Forgetaboutit. These people are so over.</p><p>Nomad. I don't know what you are saying with this paragraph. Are you saying that daughter in law can be mean? Do you think she is part of this?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 743809, member: 18958"] Yes. This is it in a nutshell. I am the one who is perceived to have the assets. And they have always perceived M as responsible for taking care of them. They believe they owe him nothing, not even respect. And they have demonstrated that everything that I have, they feel is rightfully theirs. And if I don't share, they will take, or act out against me. So yes. Yes. See above. If I do not give them what I have as they want it, there is resentment that comes out in various passive aggressive ways. Whaaat? I am certain I am disliked. And I am very likeable (smile.) We're barking up the same tree. Except in my case, they would lose the intimidation if I just never said no, and let them run me over. In Nomad's case it seems like some of the same thing is going on. That they want her hospitality, but she needs to remember her place (in her house--which is out of the photo.) That's me. I love to entertain. When I can feel rewarded. But to be used? And excluded. And disrespected to boot? No. Whaat???? I am stunned by this. Purely stunned. In your own home. When they are eating your food? Forgetaboutit. These people are so over. Nomad. I don't know what you are saying with this paragraph. Are you saying that daughter in law can be mean? Do you think she is part of this? [/QUOTE]
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