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Morning from hell and Conduct Disorder remains the verdict...
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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 466927" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>Hi ept. Hugs to you this fine day... May I be frank with you? Well, you are not in a position to refuse but... as I read your posts I am a little disturbed. Of course by what your son is doing but also by the firm conclusion that you have come to that he is "evil". I cannot see your son, how much can one tell from typed posts on a computer, you are on the ground and are the one in the position to know but... Could you answer this question honestly: has or does your son never, ever have any other kind of behaviour? Never shows the slightest affection to anyone or anything? If your honest answer is no, never, then I agree that you are looking at something unusual. If not... jury's out, really, I think as to why a child might behave this way - I do think Insane makes some good points. If I could share a little about my son - he is basically a very affectionate, loving boy and despite the difficulty of his behaviour at times, most people find him sweet. HOWEVER, there have been times - less now - when I swear I am dealing with a hostile, aggressive, unnatural child who seems more like a teenage hoodlum (seriously) than a pre-schooler. He has said terrible things about wanting to cut me, or shoot me... Just last night, actually, in the midst of a mini-rage he had about having to go inside the house and his friend having to go, I tripped and fell. He laughed and rubbed his hands... This is so unlike the "normal" J who is so quick to help people when they are hurt in any way, but something seems to happen to his brain or personaility in these moments of intense emotion... So... all that to say that I really think you should, to the extent possible, keep away from absolutely cut and dried judgements about your son yet. Call me a bleeding heart liberal but I do refuse to say that there is no hope whatsoever or movement or change for a six year old... And yes, yes, yes, you are the one on the ground with him and the one who can see and experience...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 466927, member: 11227"] Hi ept. Hugs to you this fine day... May I be frank with you? Well, you are not in a position to refuse but... as I read your posts I am a little disturbed. Of course by what your son is doing but also by the firm conclusion that you have come to that he is "evil". I cannot see your son, how much can one tell from typed posts on a computer, you are on the ground and are the one in the position to know but... Could you answer this question honestly: has or does your son never, ever have any other kind of behaviour? Never shows the slightest affection to anyone or anything? If your honest answer is no, never, then I agree that you are looking at something unusual. If not... jury's out, really, I think as to why a child might behave this way - I do think Insane makes some good points. If I could share a little about my son - he is basically a very affectionate, loving boy and despite the difficulty of his behaviour at times, most people find him sweet. HOWEVER, there have been times - less now - when I swear I am dealing with a hostile, aggressive, unnatural child who seems more like a teenage hoodlum (seriously) than a pre-schooler. He has said terrible things about wanting to cut me, or shoot me... Just last night, actually, in the midst of a mini-rage he had about having to go inside the house and his friend having to go, I tripped and fell. He laughed and rubbed his hands... This is so unlike the "normal" J who is so quick to help people when they are hurt in any way, but something seems to happen to his brain or personaility in these moments of intense emotion... So... all that to say that I really think you should, to the extent possible, keep away from absolutely cut and dried judgements about your son yet. Call me a bleeding heart liberal but I do refuse to say that there is no hope whatsoever or movement or change for a six year old... And yes, yes, yes, you are the one on the ground with him and the one who can see and experience... [/QUOTE]
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