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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 175242" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Ok. It is time to deal with this woman. Obviously she is mentally ill. Or just mean. there is no reason to waste so much of your time being upset everytime she does something.</p><p> </p><p>You need to tell husband that his mother isn't welcome at your family functions. Then you need to flat out tell mother in law she isn't welcome and needs to not come. When she shows up, your husband won't tell her to go. But you CAN. It is called protecting your own. </p><p> </p><p>And lock the dang house. Period. some crazy person might get in.</p><p> </p><p>Oh, wait, she already has. She folded clothes you didn't want and put them away to undermine your discipline and family values.</p><p> </p><p>Do you see my point???</p><p> </p><p>It is not fun (well, unless you get her close to the balloon and get the rope around her foot!) but is overdue. I had inlaws who would drive right PAST our home and not wave if we were outside. I KNOW they saw Wiz and I in the yard. Cause father in law looked really embarrassed. But they did it 4 times in ONE MONTH. My husband wouldn't say a word. Just wouldn't.</p><p> </p><p>(They were driving to see step-mother in law's grandson and his baby - MY child was just 1 yo!!!! and we didn't get a flippin' wave from the car!)</p><p> </p><p>So when they called with a demand for us to drive and hour to see them, I said we wouldn't. I toldthem they couldn't bother to WAVE at my child as they drove past and I couldn't bother to take my child to visit them until the holidays, IF THEN.</p><p> </p><p>They tried to say it wasn't them. So I said, funny, the license plate was this, and the state says that is YOUR CAR.</p><p> </p><p>It wasn't fun, but they got the point. </p><p> </p><p>YOU CAN STOP THIS. YOU HAVE THE POWER. A good lock on the door and the truck and the trailer and whatever. Will keep her out. YOU keep the keys. Say NO. </p><p> </p><p>Just say NO.</p><p> </p><p>Just say NO.</p><p> </p><p>Or you can put up with this behavior. And it will get more outrageous.</p><p> </p><p>You have CHOICE here. and POWER.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 175242, member: 1233"] Ok. It is time to deal with this woman. Obviously she is mentally ill. Or just mean. there is no reason to waste so much of your time being upset everytime she does something. You need to tell husband that his mother isn't welcome at your family functions. Then you need to flat out tell mother in law she isn't welcome and needs to not come. When she shows up, your husband won't tell her to go. But you CAN. It is called protecting your own. And lock the dang house. Period. some crazy person might get in. Oh, wait, she already has. She folded clothes you didn't want and put them away to undermine your discipline and family values. Do you see my point??? It is not fun (well, unless you get her close to the balloon and get the rope around her foot!) but is overdue. I had inlaws who would drive right PAST our home and not wave if we were outside. I KNOW they saw Wiz and I in the yard. Cause father in law looked really embarrassed. But they did it 4 times in ONE MONTH. My husband wouldn't say a word. Just wouldn't. (They were driving to see step-mother in law's grandson and his baby - MY child was just 1 yo!!!! and we didn't get a flippin' wave from the car!) So when they called with a demand for us to drive and hour to see them, I said we wouldn't. I toldthem they couldn't bother to WAVE at my child as they drove past and I couldn't bother to take my child to visit them until the holidays, IF THEN. They tried to say it wasn't them. So I said, funny, the license plate was this, and the state says that is YOUR CAR. It wasn't fun, but they got the point. YOU CAN STOP THIS. YOU HAVE THE POWER. A good lock on the door and the truck and the trailer and whatever. Will keep her out. YOU keep the keys. Say NO. Just say NO. Just say NO. Or you can put up with this behavior. And it will get more outrageous. You have CHOICE here. and POWER. [/QUOTE]
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