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<blockquote data-quote="mom_to_3" data-source="post: 154587" data-attributes="member: 30"><p>They don't want to realize their problems are of their own doing. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/grrr.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":grrr:" title="grrr :grrr:" data-shortname=":grrr:" /> It might mean they would have to be responsible????? I doubt that's it though. I really think they end up believing their own lies eventually, even when the bad realities smack them upside the head, time after time!</p><p></p><p>My difficult child wrote a couple of hot checks. Not only did she have to make good on the checks and pay extra fees to the business, she was also charged criminally by the DA. The amounts of the checks were less than $500. She had fines to pay the DA and then there were court fees and everything associated with that. Now she has a criminal record and her credit score has been affected also.</p><p></p><p>She has difficulty getting a job when they run a background check. Almost everyone does it now and her past does follow her. Any insurance, car loans, etc. she will be charged a high interest rate. It's a vicious cycle that I don't know how anyone gets out of once they cross that line. What a mess!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mom_to_3, post: 154587, member: 30"] They don't want to realize their problems are of their own doing. :grrr: It might mean they would have to be responsible????? I doubt that's it though. I really think they end up believing their own lies eventually, even when the bad realities smack them upside the head, time after time! My difficult child wrote a couple of hot checks. Not only did she have to make good on the checks and pay extra fees to the business, she was also charged criminally by the DA. The amounts of the checks were less than $500. She had fines to pay the DA and then there were court fees and everything associated with that. Now she has a criminal record and her credit score has been affected also. She has difficulty getting a job when they run a background check. Almost everyone does it now and her past does follow her. Any insurance, car loans, etc. she will be charged a high interest rate. It's a vicious cycle that I don't know how anyone gets out of once they cross that line. What a mess! [/QUOTE]
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