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<blockquote data-quote="shamrock1269" data-source="post: 167112" data-attributes="member: 5452"><p>Below is my original post, and after advice from some of the more experienced posters', I'm re-posting here. Just to update the below, the daughter was returned home by the bio mother's boyfriend. When the boyfriend was questioned about what precisely had caused them to decide to "dump" the daughter, he told the story of her explosive and destructive temper. My fiance found it amusing, because this is what he deals with daily from the daughter. So, now, bio mother really will not have anything to do with daughter or her care and healing. I wonder how this will affect the child, as she knows that she was returned because she wasn't wanted. </p><p>Fiance intends to call on a new therapist today, someone who specializes in behavioral disorders. I don't think we can go with him as the insurance won't cover this particular doctor. I am continuing to search for the right doctor. Anyone have anyone in the St Louis area that they can recommend?</p><p> </p><p>Shamrock</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>I am 37, mother to 2 daughters. I have recently become engaged to a man with 5 children. His oldest is out of the house. He has custody of the next two, and their mother has custody of the youngest two. The two that he has custody of, 12 yo boy, 11 yo girl, have some behavioral issues. They have both been diagnosed with ADHD. The older one has also been diagnosed with depression. They are not actively involved in any sort of therapy, however, they have a prescribing doctor who seems content to diagnosis on a one hour session, and prescribe new medications. The girl has just been diagnosed with ODD. She had already been on Abilify, and the dr just upped the dosage. During the summer, the girl is supposed to be with her mother, and mothers s/o. My fiance got a call today that they are bringing her home tonight because they can't handle her, and her tantrums and behavior. So, they refuse to have her for the rest of the summer. Clearly, the Abilify is not helping. I have the name of a recommended therapist who specializes in Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), and has quite a bit of experience with ODD. Because my fiance has been dealing with a dr that has no desire to actively engage with the children, he doesn't seem eager to start with a new therapist. I've been doing quite a bit of reading on the subject. It would appear that ODD and bipolar symptoms mimic each other. </p><p></p><p>My plan would be to start with the new therapist, and adjust the medications as needed. She's a beautiful bright child who can be downright destructive, manipulative and mean. As she and I will now be part of each other's family, I think that it's important that we all understand her diagnosis, and adjust the family life as needed. </p><p></p><p>Any advice, comment, or criticism would be much appreciated.</p><p></p><p>shamrock</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="shamrock1269, post: 167112, member: 5452"] Below is my original post, and after advice from some of the more experienced posters', I'm re-posting here. Just to update the below, the daughter was returned home by the bio mother's boyfriend. When the boyfriend was questioned about what precisely had caused them to decide to "dump" the daughter, he told the story of her explosive and destructive temper. My fiance found it amusing, because this is what he deals with daily from the daughter. So, now, bio mother really will not have anything to do with daughter or her care and healing. I wonder how this will affect the child, as she knows that she was returned because she wasn't wanted. Fiance intends to call on a new therapist today, someone who specializes in behavioral disorders. I don't think we can go with him as the insurance won't cover this particular doctor. I am continuing to search for the right doctor. Anyone have anyone in the St Louis area that they can recommend? Shamrock I am 37, mother to 2 daughters. I have recently become engaged to a man with 5 children. His oldest is out of the house. He has custody of the next two, and their mother has custody of the youngest two. The two that he has custody of, 12 yo boy, 11 yo girl, have some behavioral issues. They have both been diagnosed with ADHD. The older one has also been diagnosed with depression. They are not actively involved in any sort of therapy, however, they have a prescribing doctor who seems content to diagnosis on a one hour session, and prescribe new medications. The girl has just been diagnosed with ODD. She had already been on Abilify, and the dr just upped the dosage. During the summer, the girl is supposed to be with her mother, and mothers s/o. My fiance got a call today that they are bringing her home tonight because they can't handle her, and her tantrums and behavior. So, they refuse to have her for the rest of the summer. Clearly, the Abilify is not helping. I have the name of a recommended therapist who specializes in Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), and has quite a bit of experience with ODD. Because my fiance has been dealing with a dr that has no desire to actively engage with the children, he doesn't seem eager to start with a new therapist. I've been doing quite a bit of reading on the subject. It would appear that ODD and bipolar symptoms mimic each other. My plan would be to start with the new therapist, and adjust the medications as needed. She's a beautiful bright child who can be downright destructive, manipulative and mean. As she and I will now be part of each other's family, I think that it's important that we all understand her diagnosis, and adjust the family life as needed. Any advice, comment, or criticism would be much appreciated. shamrock [/QUOTE]
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