New here and not a good writter so please bare with me I feel so alone and so grateful to find this forum. My difficult child is going to be 17 next week, things have been going bad for awhile. He hasn't always been a difficult kid but it has progressed to complete havoc . Little history on us difficult child and I had always lived with my mom as I was a single parent working trying to go to school to prepare a better life for us. My mom fell sick so after I got a full time job was unable to move out, so she raised my son with me. She alwys made excuse for his behavior as well as other people so he has nev been made accountable. So she passed awY 5 years ago and things have spiraled outta control since. We have done counseling seen psyche he had to go to a treatment facility they diagnosis him but him on all kinds of medications then put him on Marinoal and then suggest medication marijuana. I fight against it all. Then finally give in because 3 different dr have suggested the same thing. He refuse to follow rules he puts holes in my walls threatens me I call cops they say they can't do anything I'm at a complete loss there is a whole lot it would be a boom to try and write but the stuff these dr.s are trying to do isn't working I. My opinion it is just give g this kid a right to be high I feel like a hostage in my own home I'm afraid to work I've taken away cell phones ect. He never has been as outa control as he has been. In the let week with the cussing me out threats ect... If I kick hi. Out I was a told I could be in trouble legally but the sheriffs won't take him for damaging my home or threading me he needs to commit a crime. I'm just seeking advice if anyone h been through this.