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My 20 year old son won't move out. HELP!
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 619229" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>If you want to verify drug use, it's a good idea to check his Facebook, his room (don't forget under the mattress and in every nook and cranny there) and...well, you can't check his cell phone, I guess...lol. Not funny, but ya halfta laff or ya cry.</p><p></p><p>That's how I found out my daughter was using drugs. I didn't think she was, and her therapist had mentioned bipolar to explain her moodswings, but I had a hunch something more was up. We found her drug toys so we knew. Most of the time, these lazy, entitled adult kids are doing some sort of drug. They may also have mental illnesses, however BOTH problems have to be solved by THEM. Your son is coherant enough to figure out how to "play" you a good one. His mind is functioning ok.</p><p></p><p>The majority of us have been through this disaster and, of course, anger and heartache. It is really maddening when we look back and realize how much we have been manipulated.</p><p></p><p>Check your money. Better yet, lock it up.</p><p></p><p>Hugs for the hurt and pain you are experiencing. Time to take good care of YOURSELF and to enjoy your loved ones and friends who appreciate all your wonderful, caring qualities. It's up to difficult child to get his life back on track; you can't do anything about it. Regardless of whether he is a drug user, depressed, both or none...he is the one who has to get his life back on track and I agree with RE that what he did was vile and meant to wound you. Yes, make sure he is driven to the library every day while you're at work if you don't want to make him leave. I wouldn't trust him at home at all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 619229, member: 1550"] If you want to verify drug use, it's a good idea to check his Facebook, his room (don't forget under the mattress and in every nook and cranny there) and...well, you can't check his cell phone, I guess...lol. Not funny, but ya halfta laff or ya cry. That's how I found out my daughter was using drugs. I didn't think she was, and her therapist had mentioned bipolar to explain her moodswings, but I had a hunch something more was up. We found her drug toys so we knew. Most of the time, these lazy, entitled adult kids are doing some sort of drug. They may also have mental illnesses, however BOTH problems have to be solved by THEM. Your son is coherant enough to figure out how to "play" you a good one. His mind is functioning ok. The majority of us have been through this disaster and, of course, anger and heartache. It is really maddening when we look back and realize how much we have been manipulated. Check your money. Better yet, lock it up. Hugs for the hurt and pain you are experiencing. Time to take good care of YOURSELF and to enjoy your loved ones and friends who appreciate all your wonderful, caring qualities. It's up to difficult child to get his life back on track; you can't do anything about it. Regardless of whether he is a drug user, depressed, both or none...he is the one who has to get his life back on track and I agree with RE that what he did was vile and meant to wound you. Yes, make sure he is driven to the library every day while you're at work if you don't want to make him leave. I wouldn't trust him at home at all. [/QUOTE]
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