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my adult son is homeless and I am heartbroken
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<blockquote data-quote="seo" data-source="post: 599922" data-attributes="member: 16528"><p>I want to thank all of you for being on this forum supporting other people, I see many years of myself here as well.....</p><p></p><p>I am not sure if today was a slip back for me, but I did call my son to see how he was...only to find out that the bike I gave him was left in front of a gas station not too far at all from my house because the handle bars came loose (that could have been fixed with a screwdriver)....yes he just left it, didn't bring it back to me (a bicycle I let him borrow) and had his grandmother (his dads mom) buy him a new one...and all I get are excuses.( he left it two days ago and today I find out, so the bike is long gone,,,if even that was the truth about it). I feel disrespected and frustrated... And I know I should not have expected more, from the things he damaged on my property when he lived with me over a years ago....I guess I can count on nothing changing.......</p><p></p><p>So frustrating this boy.....for the past two plus years I have tried to be positive to and to praise him, but before I even get a chance he does something else that is wrong or destructive, bad choices.</p><p></p><p>I know I said I didn't want to speak to him, I do want to know how he is, but when I only get frustrated by what I hear...(?)</p><p></p><p>what do I do...? I want him to know I care and love him still even in his situation,,, but .........</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="seo, post: 599922, member: 16528"] I want to thank all of you for being on this forum supporting other people, I see many years of myself here as well..... I am not sure if today was a slip back for me, but I did call my son to see how he was...only to find out that the bike I gave him was left in front of a gas station not too far at all from my house because the handle bars came loose (that could have been fixed with a screwdriver)....yes he just left it, didn't bring it back to me (a bicycle I let him borrow) and had his grandmother (his dads mom) buy him a new one...and all I get are excuses.( he left it two days ago and today I find out, so the bike is long gone,,,if even that was the truth about it). I feel disrespected and frustrated... And I know I should not have expected more, from the things he damaged on my property when he lived with me over a years ago....I guess I can count on nothing changing....... So frustrating this boy.....for the past two plus years I have tried to be positive to and to praise him, but before I even get a chance he does something else that is wrong or destructive, bad choices. I know I said I didn't want to speak to him, I do want to know how he is, but when I only get frustrated by what I hear...(?) what do I do...? I want him to know I care and love him still even in his situation,,, but ......... [/QUOTE]
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