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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 726058" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>My boy acted like he loved our pets and we did not know he was so disturbed because he was such a good actor. We are talking about an 11 year old boy! We did not think he was the one who strangled our first dog...maybe a neighbor.</p><p></p><p> Then I got a sweet little puppy and he put her leash on and flung her off the top of a bunk bed, strangling the poor puppy. Thru tears for this puppy (mine and HIS too) you would have thought a stranger had come in through a window and done it, but it had to be him. My other kids were at school and it was just him and me at home. Sobbing I called the cops, not knowing what else to do. The cop pulled me aside and said, "Your boy did it."I didn't want to believe it even then but he said, "It had to be him."</p><p></p><p>Sick.</p><p></p><p>After that, the good boy act came apart and my little girl told me he was touching her and we called CPS and told them to take him. We were done. He was too sick to live in a family. CPS was great. Gave the family tons of great therapy</p><p></p><p>Also the County tried him in cout as an adult for sexual assault of a child. He was only 13, but the law is if the abused child is six years younger than the abuser, it is a felony. Still, he had abused three younger kids but was only tried for one and the charges didn't address that he had been doing it for three years. Still, he was locked up in a residential home for young sexual predators and at 13 was on the sexual predators list. And, yes, he did it all that time and me and husband had no clue. Yes, I feel guilty. And stupid. Fortunately the kids he abused are all adults now doing well.</p><p></p><p>You can not know how many times your daughter has hurt an animal. That was all you know about. There are animals all over the place. Neighbors yards, on the way to school etc. She could be hurting nimals where you can't know or see.</p><p></p><p>We suspect this boy also killed our daughter's cat. One day the cat disappeared. Made no sense.</p><p></p><p>You just really can't know what your daughter does. Even as kids, kids with no consciences act good to adults, but are sneaky and do crazy stuff in secret.</p><p></p><p>Your ex sounds like a classic nutjob psychopath. Gave me shudders reading about him. I think you are right about him.</p><p></p><p>Ask your daughter if her dad touches her. Ask in a more delicate way. She may not tell you even if he does, but you have to try. Keep asking. Psychopaths don't even love their kids.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry for all of this. Let us know what happens.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 726058, member: 1550"] My boy acted like he loved our pets and we did not know he was so disturbed because he was such a good actor. We are talking about an 11 year old boy! We did not think he was the one who strangled our first dog...maybe a neighbor. Then I got a sweet little puppy and he put her leash on and flung her off the top of a bunk bed, strangling the poor puppy. Thru tears for this puppy (mine and HIS too) you would have thought a stranger had come in through a window and done it, but it had to be him. My other kids were at school and it was just him and me at home. Sobbing I called the cops, not knowing what else to do. The cop pulled me aside and said, "Your boy did it."I didn't want to believe it even then but he said, "It had to be him." Sick. After that, the good boy act came apart and my little girl told me he was touching her and we called CPS and told them to take him. We were done. He was too sick to live in a family. CPS was great. Gave the family tons of great therapy Also the County tried him in cout as an adult for sexual assault of a child. He was only 13, but the law is if the abused child is six years younger than the abuser, it is a felony. Still, he had abused three younger kids but was only tried for one and the charges didn't address that he had been doing it for three years. Still, he was locked up in a residential home for young sexual predators and at 13 was on the sexual predators list. And, yes, he did it all that time and me and husband had no clue. Yes, I feel guilty. And stupid. Fortunately the kids he abused are all adults now doing well. You can not know how many times your daughter has hurt an animal. That was all you know about. There are animals all over the place. Neighbors yards, on the way to school etc. She could be hurting nimals where you can't know or see. We suspect this boy also killed our daughter's cat. One day the cat disappeared. Made no sense. You just really can't know what your daughter does. Even as kids, kids with no consciences act good to adults, but are sneaky and do crazy stuff in secret. Your ex sounds like a classic nutjob psychopath. Gave me shudders reading about him. I think you are right about him. Ask your daughter if her dad touches her. Ask in a more delicate way. She may not tell you even if he does, but you have to try. Keep asking. Psychopaths don't even love their kids. I am so sorry for all of this. Let us know what happens. [/QUOTE]
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