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<blockquote data-quote="Sara PA" data-source="post: 113789" data-attributes="member: 1498"><p>It's probably a good idea to discuss the reality that a lot of young people experiement with homosexual <em>behavior</em> but doing that doesn't mean they are homosexual or even bisexual. Engaging in homosexual acts doesn't mean you are homosexual, it just means you engaged in those acts. Conversely, <em>not</em> engaging in homosexual acts does't mean you aren't homosexual, it only means you don't engage in those acts. Homosexuality -- and bisexuality -- is about who you <em>want</em> to be with, not who you <em>are</em> with. </p><p></p><p>I suspect there is a lot of faux-lesbian activity going on in institutional/foster settings these days, particularly because it "in" with some teens in general (or was a few years ago - has it changed?*). Many of the girls that kt are running into in some of the settings she's been are are already sexual, looking for affection wherever they can find it, like to be shocking, and get a kick out of leading younger girls, preferrably astray. </p><p></p><p>Kissing for the first time is pleasurable exciting and that would be true whether the first kiss was with the opposite sex or the same sex. If the kiss is with the same sex, getting excited and liking it is not necessarily an indication of homosexuality or bisexuality. But it might be.</p><p></p><p></p><p>*I see Dara has already posted that things haven't changed. See what happens when you wander away from the keyboard in mid post?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sara PA, post: 113789, member: 1498"] It's probably a good idea to discuss the reality that a lot of young people experiement with homosexual [i]behavior[/i] but doing that doesn't mean they are homosexual or even bisexual. Engaging in homosexual acts doesn't mean you are homosexual, it just means you engaged in those acts. Conversely, [i]not[/i] engaging in homosexual acts does't mean you aren't homosexual, it only means you don't engage in those acts. Homosexuality -- and bisexuality -- is about who you [i]want[/i] to be with, not who you [i]are[/i] with. I suspect there is a lot of faux-lesbian activity going on in institutional/foster settings these days, particularly because it "in" with some teens in general (or was a few years ago - has it changed?*). Many of the girls that kt are running into in some of the settings she's been are are already sexual, looking for affection wherever they can find it, like to be shocking, and get a kick out of leading younger girls, preferrably astray. Kissing for the first time is pleasurable exciting and that would be true whether the first kiss was with the opposite sex or the same sex. If the kiss is with the same sex, getting excited and liking it is not necessarily an indication of homosexuality or bisexuality. But it might be. *I see Dara has already posted that things haven't changed. See what happens when you wander away from the keyboard in mid post? [/QUOTE]
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