He's been there since February or so. M is now moving on to husband's mother's house. She's totally incapable of dealing with him. I don't think that she is expecting him. husband said "I hope he doesn't hurt her." It's the exact same thing I said about my parents, but even at 83 my 6'4" dad is intimidating. husband's mom, on the other hand, has been someone's victim most of her life. I told husband that he needed to contact his mother and tell her that M will never leave and she should not let him move in. I don't know if he will.