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<blockquote data-quote="compassion" data-source="post: 226891" data-attributes="member: 6393"><p>Bran, I am glad your daughter called. It is a releif to hear their voice. She reminds me alot of my difficult child. It is all about her and she is taking no respisnsiblity for her actions. It sounds like she is still blaming you and she deos not want to go back to jail so she isrunning, that is what it sounds like in my opinion. My daughter has done this as recently as Christmas will not talk to me, it is a way of her expressing anger and maintaing an illusion of control. I try to detachand not take it personally.</p><p> My daughter spins a lot too. She loves to shop too and will make stuff up about the wholesome activites and peple she is with. The relaity is her impulsive control, her BiPolar (BP), her addictins despite her best intentions, she could not exericse that self control and focus. The hardeat part is some moments she can but in generla cannot. In gernal, I see ehr maturity level anywhere between 6-10 in a woman's body that looks about 19. She ran a lot for 3 and a half months. She is still kind of running in that she stays on the move constantly but getting more stabilized and is attending AA. I do let myself cry. it is a greivng process. By being honest, I can still be present for my husband and my older son. It is painful, it will continue to hurt. For me, I am also accepting while trying to focus on me and place as much responsiblity and onus on her as possible.</p><p>Compassion</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="compassion, post: 226891, member: 6393"] Bran, I am glad your daughter called. It is a releif to hear their voice. She reminds me alot of my difficult child. It is all about her and she is taking no respisnsiblity for her actions. It sounds like she is still blaming you and she deos not want to go back to jail so she isrunning, that is what it sounds like in my opinion. My daughter has done this as recently as Christmas will not talk to me, it is a way of her expressing anger and maintaing an illusion of control. I try to detachand not take it personally. My daughter spins a lot too. She loves to shop too and will make stuff up about the wholesome activites and peple she is with. The relaity is her impulsive control, her BiPolar (BP), her addictins despite her best intentions, she could not exericse that self control and focus. The hardeat part is some moments she can but in generla cannot. In gernal, I see ehr maturity level anywhere between 6-10 in a woman's body that looks about 19. She ran a lot for 3 and a half months. She is still kind of running in that she stays on the move constantly but getting more stabilized and is attending AA. I do let myself cry. it is a greivng process. By being honest, I can still be present for my husband and my older son. It is painful, it will continue to hurt. For me, I am also accepting while trying to focus on me and place as much responsiblity and onus on her as possible. Compassion [/QUOTE]
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