I am so upset with her. I have let it slide all semester that she was busy studying and spending time with her boyfriend. When I HAD to speak to her I called and gave her NO option of doing anything else. When Christmas break came she said that she did not want to be here if difficult child was and things were up in the air so I didn't say anything--not happy about her staying with boyfriend ( I think that he is controlling her--she never acted like this before) I had asked her three weeks ago when finals were because I went and bought her a "study" package--favorite snacks -energy drinks--chocolate. She kept telling me that she would let me know. This last weekend her boyfriend left to go down there to see her but did not bother to check IF I had anything to send her so I text her not to worry that I would mail it. 4 hours later she text me not to because she only has one final left and it is on Monday so she is planning to be here on Tuesday BUT DON"T TELL boyfriend CAUSE IT IS A SURPRISE?????!!!! I sent back thanks I was trying to do something special to surprise you but! --I asked her then we have to come up to move you and she said no that her boyfriend has been bringing her stuff to his house for the last several trips. FINE !! she wants to be with boyfriend (in sin) but don't go around telling the rest of our small town that you can't live at home because of difficult child especially when they know that he isn't even home. All of my kids were so spoiled-- two out of four right now are sad that I am not paying the phone bill now (their own fault) -difficult child can't have his and easy child posted on face book that the most valuable thing she owns is her cell phone which allows her to talk to boyfriend all the time. Several friends and family commented that maybe she should appreciate the ones that pay the bill!! She and I are about to have it out--she said that she wants to go to school during the summer which I was concerned about because she needs a job to pay expenses too. Then she tells me that my portion of her school year is $$$$ and I said WHAT??? how am I suppose to pay that when I lost my job--husband is just been approved for SSI but it is like 1/4 of what is paycheck was. UGH!!!We still pay her phone and car insurance. The oldest two --lost there phone and ins. privileges when they screwed me over --I told them that as long as they followed the rules I would pay (they were living at home then) easy child has followed the rules but now I am hurt and upset.. she does not use "my" phone to call us unless there is an issue. Thoughts???