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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 460717" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>(((((hugs)))))</p><p></p><p>I am glad your family is there for you. I think that being willing to wait for husband's brother to be able to be there is about one of the most loving and generous gifts you could ever give him - even if he decides to not be there ever for it. </p><p></p><p>I know this isn't the first loss you have experienced in your life, but it is the worst/hardest. Please allow yourself to feel any/every feeling that comes up. I know it is very early for this, but please consider going to a grief support group. Even if you never talk, it can be an amazing resource that you never knew could help so much. The funeral homes here offer them for free - regardless of which one you use or when/where the person you lost lived. </p><p></p><p>Know we love you and are here for you. I am a night owl by nature and it is perfectly fine to call me anytime, day or night if you want to unload. I will pm my number - don't worry about the cost. If you need me to call you right back to save the phone bill, do NOT be upset/put off by that. Call anyway. Period. It won't cost me and won't be any problem for me. I already do it with several old friends on tighter budgets than mine.</p><p></p><p>If there is anything I can do, just ask.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 460717, member: 1233"] (((((hugs))))) I am glad your family is there for you. I think that being willing to wait for husband's brother to be able to be there is about one of the most loving and generous gifts you could ever give him - even if he decides to not be there ever for it. I know this isn't the first loss you have experienced in your life, but it is the worst/hardest. Please allow yourself to feel any/every feeling that comes up. I know it is very early for this, but please consider going to a grief support group. Even if you never talk, it can be an amazing resource that you never knew could help so much. The funeral homes here offer them for free - regardless of which one you use or when/where the person you lost lived. Know we love you and are here for you. I am a night owl by nature and it is perfectly fine to call me anytime, day or night if you want to unload. I will pm my number - don't worry about the cost. If you need me to call you right back to save the phone bill, do NOT be upset/put off by that. Call anyway. Period. It won't cost me and won't be any problem for me. I already do it with several old friends on tighter budgets than mine. If there is anything I can do, just ask. [/QUOTE]
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