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<blockquote data-quote="Heather52" data-source="post: 693180" data-attributes="member: 20312"><p>I'm so sorry that you lost your mother at such a young age. My almost middle aged daughter doesn't care. Her anger, disrespect and hatred trumps everything. Most mothers out there feel so blessed that there are grandparents in their chikdrens lives. Not my daughter. Her thoughts are and it goes like this we are to be thankful to her that she gave us a grandchild to love so you better meet up to my standards on how much to spend on presents for him, where you go and what you do when you have access to him, you do as I say or else attitude. </p><p></p><p>I went to my therapists today, she point blank asked me how I wanted things to end. My response was I needed help to find a a way to acceptance and to make peace with fact that I can't have a relationship with a daughter who is belligerent towards me, who is disrespectful and uses my grandchild as a pawn to punish me. She is 43 so she's not going to change. I know what I have to do. She gave me no choice but I dont know how to do it. My other response was I needed to end my relationship with my daughter without damaging my grandchild. I want no part in doing this but I need to know how I can do it. God help me but I need help with the unthinkable.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Heather52, post: 693180, member: 20312"] I'm so sorry that you lost your mother at such a young age. My almost middle aged daughter doesn't care. Her anger, disrespect and hatred trumps everything. Most mothers out there feel so blessed that there are grandparents in their chikdrens lives. Not my daughter. Her thoughts are and it goes like this we are to be thankful to her that she gave us a grandchild to love so you better meet up to my standards on how much to spend on presents for him, where you go and what you do when you have access to him, you do as I say or else attitude. I went to my therapists today, she point blank asked me how I wanted things to end. My response was I needed help to find a a way to acceptance and to make peace with fact that I can't have a relationship with a daughter who is belligerent towards me, who is disrespectful and uses my grandchild as a pawn to punish me. She is 43 so she's not going to change. I know what I have to do. She gave me no choice but I dont know how to do it. My other response was I needed to end my relationship with my daughter without damaging my grandchild. I want no part in doing this but I need to know how I can do it. God help me but I need help with the unthinkable. [/QUOTE]
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