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My hissy fit (or "Christmas is over")
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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 110385" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Witz I didn't read this yesterday so am weighing in rather late. But I want you to know that I feel for you. I hope you are OK and had a plesant evening with your husband. I do have a suggestion for future christmases. INstead of not celebrating at all and feeling like you are missing something maybe just try to make it more about the real meaning of christmas. Particapate in a mitten tree, or adopt a family, volunteer at a shelter or soup kitchen where you will be appreciated. </p><p></p><p>It is OK to keep away from toxic people as a matter of fact most therapists will tell to that you absolutely must when they are so very bad for your emotional health. I am sure you feel lost and unloved and underappreciated right now. I want to just reach out and hug you. But I do think that forgetting about Christmas in a world where Christmas is so publicly celebrated is going to be a very hard thing to accomplish. Like swimming against the current and I am afraid all you are going to do is defeat yourself. I think that redefining your Christmas Through volunteering and vacationing with your husband and making it special again is a better way to go. Take your open heart where it will be appreciated. And remember "the best revenge is to live well". author unknown. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 110385, member: 2315"] Witz I didn't read this yesterday so am weighing in rather late. But I want you to know that I feel for you. I hope you are OK and had a plesant evening with your husband. I do have a suggestion for future christmases. INstead of not celebrating at all and feeling like you are missing something maybe just try to make it more about the real meaning of christmas. Particapate in a mitten tree, or adopt a family, volunteer at a shelter or soup kitchen where you will be appreciated. It is OK to keep away from toxic people as a matter of fact most therapists will tell to that you absolutely must when they are so very bad for your emotional health. I am sure you feel lost and unloved and underappreciated right now. I want to just reach out and hug you. But I do think that forgetting about Christmas in a world where Christmas is so publicly celebrated is going to be a very hard thing to accomplish. Like swimming against the current and I am afraid all you are going to do is defeat yourself. I think that redefining your Christmas Through volunteering and vacationing with your husband and making it special again is a better way to go. Take your open heart where it will be appreciated. And remember "the best revenge is to live well". author unknown. -RM [/QUOTE]
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