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My house is really a Three Ring Circus
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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 201550" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>First off Jo, {{{{{HUGS}}}}} for you and for Izzy.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry that your H and difficult child can't let you stay detached from your drama, and keep dragging you into the middle of things. You shouldn't have to deal with that cr@p. It's not right...the way I read it is that your H unloads vitriol all over you because he figures that you are a "safe target" if you will. Your love is unconditional, and he figures he can get back into your good graces.</p><p></p><p>Honestly, I think a joint letter might be beneficial. If not for your difficult child and your H, certainly for you. It will draw a clear boundary as to what you will not put up with, from your difficult child or your H, in your own home.</p><p></p><p>You shouldn't have to feel sick at the thought of facing your H, and he needs to know that.</p><p></p><p>Sorry for your hurting heart.</p><p></p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 201550, member: 3907"] First off Jo, {{{{{HUGS}}}}} for you and for Izzy. I'm sorry that your H and difficult child can't let you stay detached from your drama, and keep dragging you into the middle of things. You shouldn't have to deal with that cr@p. It's not right...the way I read it is that your H unloads vitriol all over you because he figures that you are a "safe target" if you will. Your love is unconditional, and he figures he can get back into your good graces. Honestly, I think a joint letter might be beneficial. If not for your difficult child and your H, certainly for you. It will draw a clear boundary as to what you will not put up with, from your difficult child or your H, in your own home. You shouldn't have to feel sick at the thought of facing your H, and he needs to know that. Sorry for your hurting heart. Trinity [/QUOTE]
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