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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 240596" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">{{{Shawna}}} Take a deep breath. You do not need to make any concrete decisions about what you will do. Instead, focus on what you can do today to make a difference for yourself.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">Regardless of how your H feels and what he does or doesnt want to do - stop and think about what you want and how you will get there. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">Are you currently in contact with a counselor? If not, how about finding one who will help you navigate through all the ups and downs of a big life transition? Being able to just cry and vent about your personal defeats and disappointments will be so helpful in getting you to each new step.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">I know you're angry - but anger can be a very good motivator. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">Sending lots of hugs and support. I'm so sorry to hear about this. Seems there has been a lot of this going on around here, doesn't it? I know all of my focus on difficult child over the years has definitely put a dent in my marriage. And we went through he// at times...and I gained weight, then lost it, was depressed and negligent of H and his needs, and he of mine. Now that our girlies are mini-adults, we're finally trying to make time for each other. I know that we came very close to calling it quits. Bran, maybe there is hope for you and H. Maybe if you start to simply focus on caring for yourself and your health, the rest will fall into place. And if H is still there, then it will be up to you what happens next. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">You just never know. Hugs~</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 240596, member: 2211"] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]{{{Shawna}}} Take a deep breath. You do not need to make any concrete decisions about what you will do. Instead, focus on what you can do today to make a difference for yourself.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]Regardless of how your H feels and what he does or doesnt want to do - stop and think about what you want and how you will get there. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]Are you currently in contact with a counselor? If not, how about finding one who will help you navigate through all the ups and downs of a big life transition? Being able to just cry and vent about your personal defeats and disappointments will be so helpful in getting you to each new step.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]I know you're angry - but anger can be a very good motivator. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]Sending lots of hugs and support. I'm so sorry to hear about this. Seems there has been a lot of this going on around here, doesn't it? I know all of my focus on difficult child over the years has definitely put a dent in my marriage. And we went through he// at times...and I gained weight, then lost it, was depressed and negligent of H and his needs, and he of mine. Now that our girlies are mini-adults, we're finally trying to make time for each other. I know that we came very close to calling it quits. Bran, maybe there is hope for you and H. Maybe if you start to simply focus on caring for yourself and your health, the rest will fall into place. And if H is still there, then it will be up to you what happens next. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]You just never know. Hugs~[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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