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My husband and I are splitting up
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 240601" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Shawna, I don't know if this helps, but a long time ago I was complaining to a therapist about my first husband and how he dresses and looks. She told me that it's never about THAT, those are the symptoms, not the problem. After I while, I realized she was right! None of us look as gorgeous as the day we got married, but if other things are going right, we don't notice things like how somebody looks (at least not as much). I was focusing on something unimportant because of more disturbing things that I didin't want to deal with. I don't know if this helps, but I hope so. It's not you. (((Hugs))) to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 240601, member: 1550"] Shawna, I don't know if this helps, but a long time ago I was complaining to a therapist about my first husband and how he dresses and looks. She told me that it's never about THAT, those are the symptoms, not the problem. After I while, I realized she was right! None of us look as gorgeous as the day we got married, but if other things are going right, we don't notice things like how somebody looks (at least not as much). I was focusing on something unimportant because of more disturbing things that I didin't want to deal with. I don't know if this helps, but I hope so. It's not you. (((Hugs))) to you. [/QUOTE]
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