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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 240604" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>Hey</p><p> </p><p>You have both been through so very much the past several mos with regards to what your daughter's been doing and going through and the stress of it all is enough to make any two ppl split up.</p><p> </p><p>I am sorry that obviously things were said in regards to his being attracted to you in the therapy session that sent this up to the surface and you feeling this way.</p><p> </p><p>I have to ask, and you can answer if you want yet when he said he wanted to work on it, exactly what did he mean and how would the two of you go about doing so????</p><p> </p><p>Just take some deep breaths, often I have learned from my previous marriage that horrifying things can come out in therapy that can simply send you reeling and screaming into the night, now i'm not saying that you shouldnt' split at all. I'm just saying that therapy brings up hidden issues straight up to the surface. Don't be so quick to judge yourself and your jugement in regards to this man. He has stood by your side for ten years, he also has been by your side while this entire thing has been going on the past several mos that is causing great stress on your household and relationship.</p><p> </p><p>Take some time to deep breath through this right now, your emotions are raw, this is a shock and a blow to you. Just don't doubt you.</p><p> </p><p>Pm me if you want to, i'm here <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>(((((hugs))))) </p><p> </p><p>p.s. if this is what is going to happen and you do not want to continue this marriage, just remember something you entered this site as many of us do confused, and spiraling in regards to your daughter. WE have all watched you scrape your way to the top, your resiliency and strength has officially shined through. You are capable of absolutely anything you put your mind to, and I do mean ANYTHING.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 240604, member: 4514"] Hey You have both been through so very much the past several mos with regards to what your daughter's been doing and going through and the stress of it all is enough to make any two ppl split up. I am sorry that obviously things were said in regards to his being attracted to you in the therapy session that sent this up to the surface and you feeling this way. I have to ask, and you can answer if you want yet when he said he wanted to work on it, exactly what did he mean and how would the two of you go about doing so???? Just take some deep breaths, often I have learned from my previous marriage that horrifying things can come out in therapy that can simply send you reeling and screaming into the night, now i'm not saying that you shouldnt' split at all. I'm just saying that therapy brings up hidden issues straight up to the surface. Don't be so quick to judge yourself and your jugement in regards to this man. He has stood by your side for ten years, he also has been by your side while this entire thing has been going on the past several mos that is causing great stress on your household and relationship. Take some time to deep breath through this right now, your emotions are raw, this is a shock and a blow to you. Just don't doubt you. Pm me if you want to, i'm here :) (((((hugs))))) p.s. if this is what is going to happen and you do not want to continue this marriage, just remember something you entered this site as many of us do confused, and spiraling in regards to your daughter. WE have all watched you scrape your way to the top, your resiliency and strength has officially shined through. You are capable of absolutely anything you put your mind to, and I do mean ANYTHING. [/QUOTE]
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