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<blockquote data-quote="Stella Johnson" data-source="post: 240669" data-attributes="member: 9"><p>It may just be all the craziness that has been going on and it's not the weight. difficult child's strain the best relationship. I've seen so many people get divorced on this board over the years. That's why I stayed single for so long. I have no desire to get divorced again. </p><p> </p><p>If he is the sensitive type, I can see him losing some sex drive just from stress. I know I get that way. Well I either go from one extreme or the other.... usually the other. I start feeling clostrophobic from all the difficult child issues I just can't always handle being that close to my SO. It's not him. He has gained lots of weight since we first started dating but that isn't it. It's just that I don't want to be close to anyone at the moment. For the most part it is that I just want me time. I rarely get just me time. I'm always either doing something with or for him or difficult child or someone else. I often forget about me and then end up lashing out when i shouldn't. </p><p> </p><p>So... in my opinion it's probably the stress of kids, difficult children, and just every day life stuff and probably not your weight. </p><p> </p><p>Sorry you are going through this. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/anxious.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":anxious:" title="anxious :anxious:" data-shortname=":anxious:" /></p><p> </p><p>Steph</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Stella Johnson, post: 240669, member: 9"] It may just be all the craziness that has been going on and it's not the weight. difficult child's strain the best relationship. I've seen so many people get divorced on this board over the years. That's why I stayed single for so long. I have no desire to get divorced again. If he is the sensitive type, I can see him losing some sex drive just from stress. I know I get that way. Well I either go from one extreme or the other.... usually the other. I start feeling clostrophobic from all the difficult child issues I just can't always handle being that close to my SO. It's not him. He has gained lots of weight since we first started dating but that isn't it. It's just that I don't want to be close to anyone at the moment. For the most part it is that I just want me time. I rarely get just me time. I'm always either doing something with or for him or difficult child or someone else. I often forget about me and then end up lashing out when i shouldn't. So... in my opinion it's probably the stress of kids, difficult children, and just every day life stuff and probably not your weight. Sorry you are going through this. :anxious: Steph [/QUOTE]
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