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MY husband isn't supportive of the issues with difficult child...feel alone...
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<blockquote data-quote="ready2run" data-source="post: 461933" data-attributes="member: 11339"><p>wow...you sound almost like you live at my house. </p><p></p><p>my husband is not at all supportive either. he is often in his bedroom playing his 'silly'(in my opinion) video games and leaving everything up to me. he expects me to do everything the way he tells me to do it even though that doesn't work for me or the kids. he is really strict and i get blamed for the kids being how they are. today he even had enough nerve to tell me that i let the 'autistic kids get away with too much ****' because difficult child(his son, not mine) was stimming by wiggling a spoon and apparently i am not to allow him to stimulant like that in front of the other kids? he has no understanding of their disabilities and in his mind all their problems are a reflection of my shortcomings as a parent. he won't even do any research and won't listen when i try to tell him it's good to let them stimulant or leave them be if they aren't being too disruptive. he refuses counseling and in the last year he refuses to take his medication or even go see the doctor. i think about half my stress comes from dealing with him and trying to keep everything smooth so i don't have to deal with his rediculousness about it. i have thought of leaving many times. unfortunately that would mean leaving difficult child behind with the person who has no tolerance or understanding of him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ready2run, post: 461933, member: 11339"] wow...you sound almost like you live at my house. my husband is not at all supportive either. he is often in his bedroom playing his 'silly'(in my opinion) video games and leaving everything up to me. he expects me to do everything the way he tells me to do it even though that doesn't work for me or the kids. he is really strict and i get blamed for the kids being how they are. today he even had enough nerve to tell me that i let the 'autistic kids get away with too much ****' because difficult child(his son, not mine) was stimming by wiggling a spoon and apparently i am not to allow him to stimulant like that in front of the other kids? he has no understanding of their disabilities and in his mind all their problems are a reflection of my shortcomings as a parent. he won't even do any research and won't listen when i try to tell him it's good to let them stimulant or leave them be if they aren't being too disruptive. he refuses counseling and in the last year he refuses to take his medication or even go see the doctor. i think about half my stress comes from dealing with him and trying to keep everything smooth so i don't have to deal with his rediculousness about it. i have thought of leaving many times. unfortunately that would mean leaving difficult child behind with the person who has no tolerance or understanding of him. [/QUOTE]
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