are good people, they really are! But I'm thoroughly annoyed tonight because they expect to be catered to all the time. Duckie will be turning eight next Tuesday and we will be having a bowling party for her and 27 of her closest friends on Sunday afternoon. The family (including adults) are also invited. They won't come because they say the party is for kids. They told husband they'd rather have us take everyone out to dinner on Saturday to celebrate Duckie's birthday. husband (bless him!) said no and reiterated when Duckie's birthday party is scheduled. Arghh!