My "loving" bro...(vent)

klmno

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Ladies, I think you have him pegged!

Now, for a touch of sarcasm (only because you are my friends!)

if you have any more kids
:surprise: :rofl: :rofl:

I've never heard the term "salami tactic", but that sure sounds like what is going on.

Susie- I need to do MORE of what you are suggesting. I have done some- and started with a will written when I was 7 1/2 mos pregnant. LOL! The attny said he's never heard of anyone writing a will to protect a child that wasn't even born yet. I said "well, I could be in a car wreck and not make it, but the baby still could, so I need a will". I had hoped this all would stop with last year's custody case, but now I can see that it never will. I had never thought about how bro will act if difficult child has a child someday, but yep, I bet you guys are right.

While I was pregnant, I was grateful that my family said they would accept the baby. I tried to protect him and myself, but I had a list of names that I wrote when I just first started to think of names. It had about 20 names on the list. I asked my bro if there were any that he really didn't like, because I was trying to make a short-list. I read thru them all and bro told me he didn't like any of them. (ANY?) Then, at the hospital, bro came to see me and baby and got mad over the name I gave difficult child. (Maybe I was supposed to name him after bro??) Then, he and my mom got mad because I wanted to keep trying to nurse. (I had a lactose specialist involved.) My bro got sooo mad, that I yelled at him and told him that this was my child and my decisions, not his- as I was lying there with 20-some staples in my stomach. He stormed out of the hospital saying that the baby would be walking before he saw him again. difficult child was about 2 1/2 (and walking) before bro decided to "honor us with a visit".

But, after he did the condom thing and the computer thing, after buying difficult child a bunch of stuff- right about the time difficult child turns 12 yo (which most believe is the age that a child has some say-so about where they live), then calling people saying I was a bad parent-- well, let's just say that it is more than a little clear that bro had a plan-and I will never forgive it.

NVTS- your sis needs to get a life! I can't imagine why she would want to or get anything out of bad-mouthing you on a forum like that. Some people just don't have "family" feelings do they?
 
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